Saturday, May 14, 2016

Words that destroyed the marital relationship .

Words that destroyed the marital relationship .

Sometimes it may pronounce words. You do not mean it and inadvertently but you'll avoid taking attention and words not spoken to the husband. Many of us spoke things regret it later and wished that the time is due to correct it, but we can not correct the pain that may be caused by such phrases.Among these words:

I want a divorce:Words  No spoken front pair
One of the biggest mistakes that might occur to them that tell your spouse you want a divorce. Divorce must be outside Dictionary
Mark it option does not exist. Remember that divorce hurts your spouse and your marriage. Imaginative place yourself a pair when he heard these words.
- The man who I was with him in the past, ... etc.
If you are engaged before, do not, remember that Previous fiancé. So do not, remember that name. Never tell your husband that he was treat you better or something what distinguishes him. Phrases such as this will hurt him deeply. Your partner will never accept comparison.
-You are just like your father:
Never tell your husband that he, like his father. You caused him frustration and loss of self-confidence. Try to stay away from talking negatively about his family. His family will be part of your life for a long time.
- Stay away please!
To tell your husband to go through the brawl will make things worse. The pair will frustrate because you do not want to tell him what's wrong! Communication an essential part of marriage that your husband wanted to talk tell him What is the problem. What bothers you improve things wading talk.
- Do not show that you are not satisfied with your relationship intimate:
But you renewed romance. And showed love to give him confidence and to improve it next time.
-You need to lose some weight:
Do not tell him this ! If there are no medical reasons for it, shut your mouth about the weight. We may grieve. If one told us that we need to lose weight. It is known that men do not think about their weight, such as women. But tell him so repeatedly a negative effect on his self-confidence.
-you need to get another job:
He will feel. You are attacking him and he does not enough for what you need. He will feel inferior. Instead, think of what you want to change from his job. Is your husband away from home! It is possible to move around for the nearest place. Is his salary does not cover the bills !? You can work and help him.
-Your husband last person you can hurt him. But sometimes it is more than hurt him. Our words may hurt more than we think and may not forget for years.

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