Sunday, May 22, 2016

Problems in the intimate relation

Problems in the intimate relation

A lot of husbands and wives is believed that the man is responsible for the start of intimate relation, and it is always and never formatted and ready to her, and this belief is not true, where we find that some of the wives feel no desire in the marital relationship, but they are able to keep up with the pair to some extent, it has been the progress of women many excuses that indicate a lack of desire or willingness to intimate relationship, and although it can interact with the husband during the relationship, but for a man can not be prejudiced against himself. Or flattering his wife when his unwillingness,Because it requires a certain amount of excitement, and that does not happen without desire, and here the problem comes when the wife believes that the pair might desire it, or that it has other alternatives to get the satisfaction and gratification, and we find through medical practice that men who suffer from this problem are afraid or ashamed to discuss it with their wives, and resort to ask for help; either by popular herbal treatment, either at the request medical help.so here The reasons why some couples stop intimate relation, and are either temporarily, or even permanently:

- Intimate with a man need to practice two key factors must be present for together; Group I: the desire in the relationship in any of its forms; of self-practice or with a partner. The second factor: the ability to carry out this desire. If any malfunction occurred in one of these two elements, or both; it happens that a man begins to anxiety, which in itself is one of the factors that negatively affect the intimate practice, and I'll show you many of the reasons that make the man stop or refrain from practice with partner,But not necessarily to stop the practice of self, which is one of these reasons, and can be summarized in the following elements.
- The effect of some medicines, which are used to treat certain diseases, whether organic; such as drugs lower blood fat, or psychotropic drugs; such as some types of antibiotics or depression treatments, and should not forget here that the most important diseases that lose the man libido is depressed disease.
- Inability to sleep and the incidence of insomnia for any reason may be related to the physical aspect, work or physical fatigue and other reasons, also it found that some men who suffer from sleep disorders or apnea during sleep; also suffer from the disorder in the desire intimate relationship.
- Deficiency in the level of hormones in the body, especially the hormone testosterone, which results in some symptoms such as breast hypertrophy and lack of facial hair. And body generally, must work here lab tests; to see the levels of these hormones, with the measure thyroid hormone also; because in the case of severe decline intimate relation affected.
- Disorder in sexual identity, which is rare, and usually show symptoms in the early stages of age; where feel the man believed to be a woman, and be inclinations towards the same sex, but not as in cases of homosexuality, and this disorder appears on the behavior a lot of signs that make man acting at the belief that female, and we find some families tend to marry off their children; believing that this will help to treatment. and this belief is not true.
- The existence of deep differences with the wife.
- Psychological pressure and the presence of psychological problems deep need to specialized treatment,; the husband is suffering from a sense of guilt to you, and here should be subject to the treatment of behavioral; to help get rid of this negative feeling inside; even improve psychologically has also must pay attention to the fact that he can not procreation, and whether there are alternatives such as caring for orphans, and even from family, what makes it more able to cope with the painful realities of life.
- Some couples tend to practice self-excitement, or what is known as the secret habit, as a substitute for intimacy, especially if there are some matters relating to the comments, and even if they were not intended by the wife, making him estranged from common practice, and here we need to find out more things about the dynamics of the marital relationship, and the things that I would advise them always to resort to clinics marital counseling, and identify the problem more accurately and closely, with an emphasis on the above mentioned expectations in intimate relationships, and differences between the couple.

 Some men suffer in silence, and may not know that the wife may be the primary catalyst to get rid of a lot of negative feelings in men, especially if the forecasts are based on realistic grounds, and without the tendency to judgment before knowing the hidden side of the problem.


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