Family life between the spouses is based on the equation Equal aspects, but it may occur Some behaviors between them lead to scratch married life that depend on the bases Foundations can only be built by, and those behaviors that put significant barriers between the couple marginalization husband to his wife, and live in a family environment inhabited by silence, which would result in a lack of affection between the spouses.
- It is often this marginalization as a result of lack of understanding of the other party, the man deals with a wife like to have their needs and requirements herself as a man, and there is a big difference between them, each race his way of thinking and expression, the husband when the behavior of marginalization does not know the impact on his wife, acting on the requirements and needs, so marital problems lies in the first years of marriage; because it results in a lot of negative results that include parties.
- When a man does not reflect the feelings commensurate with the needs of women, it her feel emotional frustration and the gradual withdrawal in a lot of things, trying to be that passion saturation in various ways, including: excessive overload as eating or binging purchase, or go out and hung up friends, has up to depression, and in the some cases may fall marital infidelity, and sometimes alienated from the marital relationship of the sense of alienation with her husband.
- If the husband express his love through intimate relationship, women want before it can flood the feelings to feel reassured and safety with the living, relationship intimacy of women in second place, and so unlike the man who this relationship be for him in the first place, the two may not realize that , the wife hates to be the key to love just to meet the sexual desire of the husband, and wants only love for love without anything else, the pair is successful intimate relationship it wanted to submit feelings of love enough,He should understand the thing that full his wife emotionally from the words of love, it is possible that spoken to her on his work only to tell her that he loves her, it protects women from any negative feelings, and may submit a Tender Touches like hugging before leaving the house or when he returned, and tenderly touching and fondled, in addition to the donated gifts Statistics, and remembers the day her birthday or their wedding day, and provides services and assistance they need to feel that he stands beside her, it her feel safe,It is possible to help her with some of the tasks. Or customize your time to communicate with her every day what you need express. Or to talk about what happened with her in this day of trouble at work or in education, and telling her husband what had happened with him in his work throughout the day or the problems faced, and each pair able to learn the way they have emotionally with his wife.
- More learning opportunities be after the error, all of husbands and wives may have committed many errors in the right of the other party, but more importantly, how to avoid the continuation, and adjust in our behavior toward the other end, the husband should understand the needs of the wife to ask her about the things that she loves , and the way of life that you want, every wife wants to show love in her husband's words and his eyes and attention, respect and appreciation and confidence that he loved her, as well as the wife to understand the needs of the spouse, So that she asks him what he wants them as his wife. Every couple wants respect and appreciation, acceptance and encouragement, admiration and stimulation, and the husband that is fully aware that married life is based on dialogue and openness with be between them, whether at the level of life General or the intimate relationship level, and it is important to draw the wife to the husband's attention you need and want, so it is important to draw the attention of the husband to his wife's needs and wants with all respect and love each other without the marginalization of one another, which may result in a reluctance by both parties, leading to the destruction of an entire family.
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