What are the things that cause grief for the husband ??

You may proffer a lot of things that cause inconvenience and grief for your husband, and which of them up to the point of insult is your knowledge, so we will give you some actions which must stay away from them for your husband's feelings into account, such as:

Leaving the pair away like the wife planning to go out with her friends, or leave the pair watched his TV show and lonely, or spend money on some big purchases, without the involvement of the husband in this charts, hurt husband and makes him feel outcast and a single, and was not interested in him.
Jokes that carry some insult to the husband is this matter of more things prey to the man, he accepts the banter of his wife in front of others, and but from the inside feels sadness and pain, so should the wife rather than comment on the weight or done derisively, to show the extent of her love good to speak with him in front of friends and his friends, to avoid embarrassment and harm.

Not compatible with some people
The wife should not try to stand up for the people who do not live with the husband, and could not hold them, such as calling them to the house, or to speak to them from behind his back, because the cracking of speech and opinion,
  In addition to the insult that he had felt as a result of the wife do so.
Child care
Preferably wife does not interfere in the way in which the pair used in the care of his children., Teach some things that are unknown, due to the late work and his absence from home, but they should be encouraged and left to rest so as not to feel that he hurt his children, which may adversely affect the psyche.

Going into the interview should not go where it refers to the wife's talking about things that are of their own and her husband to other women as a matter of catharsis,
  Which may turn against it in a lot of cases, so the pair are believed to be an outbreak of secrets and lead to feelings hurt, and hurt her.

Compared pair exposed ego and with the pair of burning, when his wife to submit comments prey, and comparisons between him and other men, to affecting him
Negative form and mischievous.