Specifications ideal for women who sought by a man

Specifications ideal for women who sought by a man

The man may fall in love with the girl naive, which amaze his her innocence and drifting in marriage vulnerable women that are easy to fold up between the corners of the house wall, which did not oppose his orders, and serve as the satisfaction of the ego and feel as a man who has the final say, but at the same time respects the bold women . And recognition of women's personal strong.

- Proof of more than 90% of men admit they may take advantage of the good and vulnerable women and live with her a romantic relationship or a special relationship away from the marriage, but they love and respect bold women, because the weak may be boring and non-renewable in the relationship. There is no need of them only a quiet and warm times, but quickly moving away them. Not marry her only the man who likes to control or who wants to comfort his problems and dialogue, this was confirmed by a recent US study.
The study pointed, men averse than provocative. That make the hostility since their first meeting with the man, and prefer soft smooth strong women, and the firm, and kind, which does not allow one to play her feelings or exploited because she knows what she wants.
- If the good woman give free of charge at the first word of love, strong woman give or always prevent in a timely manner and to the extent take, although some prefer wife, but many refuse to be bound by her, especially if a prestigious center in their work, they consider the power of her personality a challenge to their manhood, and tangible evidence seems clear high rate of spinsterhood among the ranks of smart educated in prestigious work, the more outstanding certificates on the wall, the less number of suitors who are knocking on the door.
That some men may find the marriage of a woman with features strong character some kind of challenge to their manhood and their control on the house while considered work with comfort because they can rely on, while there are another group of men considered the marriage of strong personal woman a catalyst for them to progress forward in work, home and social life are complementary to them and not challenge them.
- The women self-confident great luck with men, because they love their confidence in themselves, they will not open the gates of hell on them because of her jealousy, or lack of confidence in their love.
Therefore the man who is married to a woman with a great deal of self-confidence may fingernail peace of mind and get rid of absurdities of early women's petty problems. Women also confident of herself does not impose itself on the man, but is the one who must seek behind his desire to marry her so much, so the man does not feel that he was involved in the link. As she did not haunt her husband telephone communications to make sure his sincerity if a little late for an appointment and arrival at the house, or if soirée was associated with his friends. And because it is a mysterious woman man can not predict their actions, the man adores constant renewal in his life with her.
- Ideal Specifications: Despite the different tendencies of human desires, but there is a common specification for women it combines the most idealistic men and always are looking for a partner in their lives. Which it refers to a survey conducted in the United States, pointing out that men are attracted to:
- Independent: a reverse dependency, do not wait for the man to meet the demands, always rely on herself, as well as a woman flying like to travel and meet new people.
- Beautiful seductive: any attractive women is stilted in her beauty, which does not resort to the artificiality.
- Smart: a woman who can address the heart of the man using her own mind, can feel her love without the permit him to do so, so keep a man in a state of alert and stimulate continuously.
- Beloved friendly: listen to the man when in need of it, share it his career positively, at the same time be a sweetheart and pampered daughter in the bedroom.

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Love on the Internet. Experiments failed or successful relationships!

Love on the Internet. Experiments failed or successful relationships!

They said in the past: "The love comes from the first look," In our time, and with the development and progress in a century technology and the World Wide Web became said: "The love comes from the first correspondent", as the evolution of love to move new shift becomes love electronically after it was on the the ground face to face,And it became love is to email messages and love over the Internet, and there are those that love the link via the Internet is a legitimate and meaningful, while others find it a virus threatens homes, and is totally unacceptable .. Is Love succeeded via the Internet, or is it just entertainment feelings of others and Search love?

- There are women say I am against the idea and the principle of emotional love and link through the Internet, and I reject, of course, the so-called "Love in the Internet", as I passed a small story and was friendship fleeting, and the passage of days, I discovered that the other party does not care, but the sport only, and be entertain beyond limits of literature and fitness,I did not find the personal intelligentsia respected that talk ideology threads public, but it was the primary objective of entertainment and a waste of his time hiding behind the screen and talk with rejected ethics and society, and I see that from their hiding masks fakes behind screens to obtain the freedom that placed its laws in social life, and they the owners of two faces and figures, understand the demons of mankind on the Internet and in life claim of innocence.
It was my experience that a lesson to me, I learned from it that love is not through the Internet, and it needs to be ratified by loving, and to audio and visual communication, and knowledge of the person face to face, and then possible that fostered online communication, if any, then formal linkage, but it must be be the first meeting and the first knowledge of the reality of the truth and not fiction, online communication does not make you feel the feelings of the other party that was honest or a liar, and you can not see that. The twinkles in his eyes.
- Not only that, but there is also a look at our society of love through the Internet, which is still incomplete and immature, I see around me a lot of marriages fail. Which was completed and had its beginnings knowledge via the Internet, my relationships on social networking sites are all friends of my relatives or friends, in fact, not through the Internet which is no longer as before long relationship,Now I consider it entertainment only and not the fact that I live with it, the Internet's relationships just an illusion and deception, no more no less, and I would advise all girls and young people to go down to the ground to find out what is true love and not false.
- There are also men say, "I refuse all standards the so-called romantic relationships and love through the Internet, there is no doubt that the Internet has acquired the mind and interest in human who has to discover its secrets and find out secretes they contain, and captured the attention of a lot of people of various races and ages,and it became the network used for purposes far removed from the goals that I found for it, such as catching the girls. and rhythm them under the name of "love,And visitors do not reveal their true identity often, and few are telling the truth to the other party, we find the young man introduces himself in the best picture, to clear eventually that handsome young is only a young man does not have the beauty what it takes to lure any girl, may be behind this feminine name beautiful man, and behind that the male name soft girl, in the Internet we be more like a masquerade. Behind the material and moral blocking.
- At these sites the man flirts with the girl words resonant style enchanting even convinced that he is the boy awaited dreams, are dating and establish friendship develop a love relationship, and respect each other, may end the relationship by agreeing to the marriage, and the marriage in my opinion was based on the foundations of an illegal and not sound, and fate of failure and regret, and will not be long, but begins doubts stage, and will continue to pair lost confidence or trust of his life with her, The girl obtained via phone or Internet chat rooms. Unsafe in his view,May seek again to establish similar relationships with others, this is what will occupy his mind and raises concern all the time, and I accept, of course, romantic relationships that are in formal and realistic range does not have any dirty purposes, it is a link to a family with wife satisfaction for myself and my life, and to be chaste self take care of my home and my family.

* To every girl looking for love using the Internet. Think carefully and choose the best and the more long-term was the right choice . Because identifying the right person needs to be enough time. In this article I spoke about the opinion of some people. But there are those who succeed using the internet and built a happy family

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How to reconcile the love and study?

Between the dreams of love and achievement and passion for education and his ambition, girls are at a loss .Which is most important: to be a family life of their own, or give up love for the sake of ambition education and upgrading, which will arrive at the end of the day to the highest levels of practical ambition, and prove self? And any roads better, two options are both irreplaceable in life, but it is necessary to find a formula together to achieve this.

- Once girls reach the age of majority. Changing society's perception of her, the girl entered in the female framework in which to be linked to partner life to build a family's future, as well as the matter is not free from the dreams of pink girl and Knight life, their own wishes to get love full her emotions, so we find some of the girls under the age of twenty or slightly above it to enter the world of love or marriage, with consequent great responsibilities, then it shall meet love life with loads of study, which infect turmoil and confusion, which one you choose: build a family or build a practical future?

- Love is beautiful and likable of the same, but you should pay attention before you fall into it and the abolition of the mind and make the heart is what controls the emotions, make us choose the wrong road, and this is where most of the young girls fall, and the girl's education is a weapon. Which strengthens the confidence and simmer of her personality, and makes her opinion and thought assisted to overcome the difficulties of life in all the wisdom and rationality, and there is nothing to prevent that meets the love and science together, but in the context of credibility and openness with restraint and not to raise the balance on the other.

- Of course preferably not rush the girl throws herself and her feelings on the first word love respond to becomes aware of, or be exposed to the insistence of the parents in her marriage being exceeded adulthood and that is the march of life, so be that the girl put the basic conditions for her life and her future to achieve a balance between the two, without wandering in so, which are:

_ Objective: You must put your scientific goals aspire to reach it. Not waive achieved; science is a weapon of life and knowledge.

_ Maturity: Be mature intellectually Despite the small age do not claim any external influences affecting the fateful decision to admit you may change the future of a world which you wish to have.

_ Be patient: Do not rush, hoping to earn love, so make sure before you found the sincere love that support you and increase your success.

_ Put your accounts: through the pros and cons account, and any tip will tend for you, and the introduction of consultation, and bitch about the rush to any external cause may be exposed to it.

_ Respect: Learn to respect the emotions and respect for the value of education, Both are an integral part. And it must not be separated with each other Each complements the other indirectly.

- , That the possession of the certificate is very important for its future, as well as also love and marriage, because God created us to complete our lives partner last to achieve the dream of motherhood beautiful, and can not find any objection to that love and the study is consistent with each other if found true love and partner, who improves to be treated in them, and helps her to pass the stages and completed her education to study, but if placed in the check box. You will choose love. And the link, it is the top of her happiness and priorities, and full belief that love does not object with academic achievement,But it is an incentive to him, so you should choose a life partner carefully; because of love will seek definitely successful, successful The girl is that you can have all Life Tools of love and marriage, study and work without being the victim of one of them lies, all in the first and foremost is located on of your choice for shared her life ,And on the strength of its confidence and ambition, the girl refused to marry because science is not completely right will result in damage to many in the community, and this has lead to an increase of sedition and corruption of society, and moral chaos.

- The girl is interested in nature with love, and is also interested in proving self, life is beautiful and dreamy alone is not enough to make a living, and must strive to build the future. As well as the girl someday will be a mother, and would seek to educate their children, they must be on the amount of adequate science to create a new generation, and will get to do it, but science. It weapons should not surrender it, as well as love is what makes life better person, real loving seeks to delight partner. And be of help to him not it, Love gives a great boost,But more important to differentiate between love and desire so as not to fall into the labyrinths, and should parents are sensitive and conscious to respect our views and desires of support. No coercion, everything has its time and its beauty, not in favor of urgency to end one of the two roads, Parents help us their experiences that enrich our thoughts and our decisions if available understanding and dialogue .

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Tips for girls before they fall in love

Love is one of the exams pass out in your life, but differs from the rest of the exams that everyone may evade the exercise, everyone is accelerating to love without any prior preparation it, abound questions by girls about love, and how to fall into it, and the most appropriate time for it,But is every girl ask themselves. If you were eligible for this love? And how they work to get it in order not to fall in a bad choice and rush, which may be a reason for feeling remorse throughout her life? In the following lines, the solution to that problem for you to open up broad prospects love to see another concept was absent from you, so as a new window through which to overlook your emotions and how to budget in order to avoid taking a failure in love.

- The girl does not know in a lot of times if what you feel is the true love that will live forever or is it just love transient full emotional desires no more, Girls usually fall in love gap rapidly as a result of the lack of emotional gratification, resorting to satisfy it by searching for loving. Which expresses her words of love and compassion,Often the girl begin to search for love from the age of "14 years", as suffering during this period of turmoil in the identity and look for proof of the same, whether in love or study or talent, it is important to prove that it is a phenomenon in society and beloved, we find some of the girls may resorted to this kind of emotional love, and deflects behind it to prove identity,As we can see others happy words of praise and spinning, due in a lot of times to loss their touch of parental caring and containment fraternal tenderness emanating from the mother, which detract from their own emotion, resorts to compensate from the outside, and there are girls although because they are within the family range loving and full of feelings abundant,However, they are drifting behind blind imitation, and jealous of their friends stories. their having a lover, the girl seeks to be like them to show for herself that it does not lack anything like them and the same, and this of the most dangerous things, some girls weak souls. Resort to telling stories And lies The highlights in the vicinity of girlfriends.

- But what the girls should pay attention it. That true love has the conditions and does not come in vain, but you deserve. Always looking to it and keep it in your life, as you learn how to pick it love, it will not come only put some important foundations that help you in your life in order not to fall in the wrong illusions of love, and the most important of these principles:

- Self-realization:

Achieved yourself by reaching for your goals and your ambitions in your life that you want to the future, they are the basis of your identity and your character pillars that will support your confidence and you are independent personality.

- Select age-appropriate:

Before thinking in to experience love, live your age level, and to postpone the decision to love after you reach the age of majority, in order to Being enjoyed all stages of your age, not wearing a dress emotional maturity and you are still small it.

-  Do not Rush into love:

Rush into love to get emotional gratification may sign you into a well of remorse and failure in love as a result of a bad choice. Before that draws your feelings of love you have to go easy in order to improve choice.

- balancing the mind and heart:

The balance between the mind and heart in the feelings of love, do not let emotion control you. Be canceled your thinking, which in turn will take you and guide you to know right from wrong, and you evaluate things with your mind first before you routed to your heart.

- Honesty with yourself:

Being honest with yourself before you fall in love, and wondered: Is this love sincere. Or just a love of tradition and placebo or to hear the words of love and spinning. Satisfy the ego and emotions? If you believe with yourself. You will then know what you want from that love.

- Maintaining your values:

Do not let drift behind Love cancel your values and your principles and your morals that you arose them, even the man does not care is not seen the girl started insulting her dignity and reputation out of love. But would prefer a girl who sticks to customs and morals and values, whatever the temptations of love in front of him.

-  Put the foundations for your partner:

You have to put your specifications for the man of your dreams, as embodied the image in your mind of its shape and emotions, you should put your foundation sound morals and his commitment to his work and his knowledge, man sincere hard in his life is committed to morality and full of morality and true manhood to be able to create a secure future for himself and his family.

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Apathy among the reasons for the couple and how the treatment

Marital relations collide often coolly passionate cause away from the other person may sometimes go away or the demise of the reasons may remain, leaving many problems may amount to a final separation or search for another haven,Here we talk about the causes of apathy in the relationship between the couple and how we process its, including:

- The possible impact of some social or economic pressures faced by the family on an emotional and psychological behavior when one of the spouses or when both, but this is circumstantial and disappear with the demise of the implications of the problem.- To be one of them. Few intelligence in relation to the intimate relationship, in the sense that it is very reassuring that the other loves him no matter what the performance and quality of the relationship, leading to a failure to do any effort to please the other. Based on the love that unites them, do not they return cares about each other in terms of appearance or exchange gifts and fine words and other things that improve the relationship and attract one to the other.- Laziness in the behavior of one of the spouses is no longer so interested in the other to the wishes and the likes of perfume, and listen to music, watch movies, and the quality of a particular food, clothes, a car,And it becomes everyone do not bother to think and search for aesthetic and positive elements in the other character and appearance- Indifference occasions (birthday feast, feast marriage ..), which are of interest to women a lot, and here it must be noted that the gift remember the last beautiful days of a person of love.- Lack of respect for the privacy of others. Within manners, his personality, what he likes and dislikes and within the scope of his work,If a person has used to read the newspaper in the morning, for example. His wife comes to him and removed the grounds that it does not care about its, or if a woman has become accustomed to sleeping longer hours in the morning. The pair comes to wake her early every day. The same applies to the intimate relationship between them, it is not enough to have work mechanically, but there must be a permanent space for emotional harmony between the two parties by revealing what loves. What hated each other during intimacy.- The introduction of an external negative element. The sense of extramarital bilateral, home, meaning the introduction of the problems that one party may suffer in his work or with friends or family, for example, to the house.- Not taking into account the professional and social progress of each party remains of the two other seen in the same way that was seen in the past and wants to treat him a sense of superiority from his place of work or position.* Tips to strengthen the marital relationship:- Regeneration in the routine of life, the meaning of change some usages routinely boring, such as changing hairstyle, fragrance user, the restaurant, which often met him out every day holiday.- Regeneration in emotional harmony means that from time to time the launch of a range of compliments the other and made to understand that he still has the aesthetic aspects, do not need to be old, but emerging, raise the morale of the other.- To get away from all the negatives and everyday things that previously mentioned and lead to apathy in the relationship between the couple.- Permanent hope in life and the preservation of mental Youth, as it works to strengthen the relationship more.

Must be given the intimacy of great importance, marriage is not only the search for consistency in ideas only, Agreement intellectual good, but must be given the intimacy importance because they are granted by the continuity of marriage and supports the relationship more, especially that all men are looking forward to this issue and see it as essential.

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Problems in the intimate relation

A lot of husbands and wives is believed that the man is responsible for the start of intimate relation, and it is always and never formatted and ready to her, and this belief is not true, where we find that some of the wives feel no desire in the marital relationship, but they are able to keep up with the pair to some extent, it has been the progress of women many excuses that indicate a lack of desire or willingness to intimate relationship, and although it can interact with the husband during the relationship, but for a man can not be prejudiced against himself. Or flattering his wife when his unwillingness,Because it requires a certain amount of excitement, and that does not happen without desire, and here the problem comes when the wife believes that the pair might desire it, or that it has other alternatives to get the satisfaction and gratification, and we find through medical practice that men who suffer from this problem are afraid or ashamed to discuss it with their wives, and resort to ask for help; either by popular herbal treatment, either at the request medical help.so here The reasons why some couples stop intimate relation, and are either temporarily, or even permanently:

- Intimate with a man need to practice two key factors must be present for together; Group I: the desire in the relationship in any of its forms; of self-practice or with a partner. The second factor: the ability to carry out this desire. If any malfunction occurred in one of these two elements, or both; it happens that a man begins to anxiety, which in itself is one of the factors that negatively affect the intimate practice, and I'll show you many of the reasons that make the man stop or refrain from practice with partner,But not necessarily to stop the practice of self, which is one of these reasons, and can be summarized in the following elements.

- The effect of some medicines, which are used to treat certain diseases, whether organic; such as drugs lower blood fat, or psychotropic drugs; such as some types of antibiotics or depression treatments, and should not forget here that the most important diseases that lose the man libido is depressed disease.

- Inability to sleep and the incidence of insomnia for any reason may be related to the physical aspect, work or physical fatigue and other reasons, also it found that some men who suffer from sleep disorders or apnea during sleep; also suffer from the disorder in the desire intimate relationship.

- Deficiency in the level of hormones in the body, especially the hormone testosterone, which results in some symptoms such as breast hypertrophy and lack of facial hair. And body generally, must work here lab tests; to see the levels of these hormones, with the measure thyroid hormone also; because in the case of severe decline intimate relation affected.

- Disorder in sexual identity, which is rare, and usually show symptoms in the early stages of age; where feel the man believed to be a woman, and be inclinations towards the same sex, but not as in cases of homosexuality, and this disorder appears on the behavior a lot of signs that make man acting at the belief that female, and we find some families tend to marry off their children; believing that this will help to treatment. and this belief is not true.

- The existence of deep differences with the wife.

- Psychological pressure and the presence of psychological problems deep need to specialized treatment,; the husband is suffering from a sense of guilt to you, and here should be subject to the treatment of behavioral; to help get rid of this negative feeling inside; even improve psychologically has also must pay attention to the fact that he can not procreation, and whether there are alternatives such as caring for orphans, and even from family, what makes it more able to cope with the painful realities of life.

- Some couples tend to practice self-excitement, or what is known as the secret habit, as a substitute for intimacy, especially if there are some matters relating to the comments, and even if they were not intended by the wife, making him estranged from common practice, and here we need to find out more things about the dynamics of the marital relationship, and the things that I would advise them always to resort to clinics marital counseling, and identify the problem more accurately and closely, with an emphasis on the above mentioned expectations in intimate relationships, and differences between the couple.

 Some men suffer in silence, and may not know that the wife may be the primary catalyst to get rid of a lot of negative feelings in men, especially if the forecasts are based on realistic grounds, and without the tendency to judgment before knowing the hidden side of the problem.

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Cons marginalization of the wife emotionally

Family life between the spouses is based on the equation Equal aspects, but it may occur Some behaviors between them lead to scratch married life that depend on the bases Foundations can only be built by, and those behaviors that put significant barriers between the couple marginalization husband to his wife, and live in a family environment inhabited by silence, which would result in a lack of affection between the spouses.

- It is often this marginalization as a result of lack of understanding of the other party, the man deals with a wife like to have their needs and requirements herself as a man, and there is a big difference between them, each race his way of thinking and expression, the husband when the behavior of marginalization does not know the impact on his wife, acting on the requirements and needs, so marital problems lies in the first years of marriage; because it results in a lot of negative results that include parties.

- When a man does not reflect the feelings commensurate with the needs of women, it her feel emotional frustration and the gradual withdrawal in a lot of things, trying to be that passion saturation in various ways, including: excessive overload as eating or binging purchase, or go out and hung up friends, has up to depression, and in the some cases may fall marital infidelity, and sometimes alienated from the marital relationship of the sense of alienation with her husband.

- If the husband express his love through intimate relationship, women want before it can flood the feelings to feel reassured and safety with the living, relationship intimacy of women in second place, and so unlike the man who this relationship be for him in the first place, the two may not realize that , the wife hates to be the key to love just to meet the sexual desire of the husband, and wants only love for love without anything else, the pair is successful intimate relationship it wanted to submit feelings of love enough,He should understand the thing that full his wife emotionally from the words of love, it is possible that spoken to her on his work only to tell her that he loves her, it protects women from any negative feelings, and may submit a Tender Touches like hugging before leaving the house or when he returned, and tenderly touching and fondled, in addition to the donated gifts Statistics, and remembers the day her birthday or their wedding day, and provides services and assistance they need to feel that he stands beside her, it her feel safe,It is possible to help her with some of the tasks. Or customize your time to communicate with her every day what you need express. Or to talk about what happened with her in this day of trouble at work or in education, and telling her husband what had happened with him in his work throughout the day or the problems faced, and each pair able to learn the way they have emotionally with his wife.

- More learning opportunities be after the error, all of husbands and wives may have committed many errors in the right of the other party, but more importantly, how to avoid the continuation, and adjust in our behavior toward the other end, the husband should understand the needs of the wife to ask her about the things that she  loves , and the way of life that you want, every wife wants to show love in her husband's words and his eyes and attention, respect and appreciation and confidence that he loved her, as well as the wife to understand the needs of the spouse, So that she asks him what he wants them as his wife. Every couple wants respect and appreciation, acceptance and encouragement, admiration and stimulation, and the husband that is fully aware that married life is based on dialogue and openness with be between them, whether at the level of life General or the intimate relationship level, and it is important to draw the wife to the husband's attention you need and want, so it is important to draw the attention of the husband to his wife's needs and wants with all respect and love each other without the marginalization of one another, which may result in a reluctance by both parties, leading to the destruction of an entire family. 

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The most important tips to avoid emotional apathy among couple

The most beautiful days of women in her life when it begins to love and relationship romance between her and the the pair, which starts from the days of courtship dominated by romance and love, never ends and makes women live in an atmosphere of rosy dreams even entering the marital home, With the end of the wedding and the wedding ceremony and the beginning of the honeymoon adoption bride dreams that they will live in is full of interesting and romance and the love that does not stop by the husband home,But some wives may shock the expiry interesting pair quickly and the end of the beautiful moments in all its details, she will find attention and love that was provided by the pair may still turning to apathy, indifference, They suffer from marginalization by their husbands and lack of attention to them, which could lead to a distant relationship with each other.

- Misconceptions most important reasons for apathy.

Many different reasons, and most important: the inability to break the barrier of shyness, locked up a lot of couples feelings and have no subsidy from their wives for the same reason, and often complain of wives of it with the pair distinctive in the rest of the aspects of family life, as there are some societal constraints wrong that makes a husband who gives a high priority of his interest in his wife an object of ridicule and sarcasm. Many couples are reluctant for fear of it.

Interesting that the wife her husband break the barrier of exclusion, should be the wife that makes him feel as proud of him and admire his personality and the ability of each of what he is doing effort to happiness, and when the pair that he appreciated both in its shape and his appearance or morals or his work or feel tender. Then feel that everything that offer is appreciated, thereby creating attention and care, which often are looking for ways wives away the distance between them.

- Cons emotional apathy.

The most important cons of emotional apathy between spouses It transforms the marital life of beauty and intimacy and happiness to dull life and vibrant, and the generation that arises in these families will be psychological growth distorted; because missed most important of its components, when passion loss inside the house walls may be searched it outside the walls, and this of the most serious threats to the family.

- Tips for newly married couples to avoid that crisis.

* The newly married wife should. Not to leave things more than aggravation and other deals are passively or marginalizing the pair of reciprocal. Or shortness act, but they must be conscious, and learn the characteristics and the nature of each party and the most important differences between them, each party has their own way of satisfying the requirements of form and substance differ from the other party.

* It is essential that there be some constant renewal of the typical married life such as travel, gifts and happy surprises, the monotony is the most important reason for the elimination of the beauty of the emotional life of the spouses.

* shyness exaggerated or unhealthy habits lead to express their feelings and meet the needs of a life partner to a decrease in the marital relationship.

Empathy and provide an opportunity for it, whether the participation of joy or sorrow so that each party is becoming the place beautiful for a partner of his life, reveal his moments of joy, and complain to him moments of pain, and finds the couple they have become one person knows each other interesting and affairs, strengthen the marital relationship between them.

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The reasons that require concern for your partner

Intimacy between every couple of great relationship privacy, which is the main artery and the backbone of the success of the marital relationship as a whole, so we find that this relationship should receive the attention and care of the two parties, particularly women, who are considered effective by the engine, because the female highly sensitive nature to this relationship and intense fear of be shared by others in this relationship or affect the integrity and smooth of occurrence, should be very keen on the attention to any indication that would take away the purity of this relationship,These are some indicators that would adversely affect the relationship to be drew attention to it by the wife:

- The wife is afraid her husband of several things starting from the desire practices abnormal or the Forbidden request and not to enjoy only by, or frequent desire to watch pornographic films, or infidelity with other women, noting the presence of a number of indicators on conscious women monitored quietly.

- Monitoring of male friends if they are normal, and if they are married, who live on the fleeting relations; because this kind of friendships always been foot to destruction.

- Observe treated his friends to you if there was friction, sometimes they may treat you curious treatment,That's because they know that the pair has made treason.

- Be careful when you find that a man carrying a condom in spite of you are used to a contraceptive.

-  Be careful when a man bought new underwear himself with the knowledge that you are accustomed to buy him all his things.

- Observe while trying to follow new ways of intimacy was not accustomed to do it.

-  Pay attention also contrast from when he loses the desire without explaining the reasons.

- Be careful when you find scratches on any part of his body and can not explain to you the reasons for this.

- Observe when you find that he is not wearing a wedding ring in certain situations claiming forgotten.

- Observe the religious position and the extent of his interest and its application to acts of worship and is it in decline or not.

- Finally attention on the unusual appearance, as well as to monitor communications and how it relates to the location of electronic communication, and so is one of the phenomena is reassuring So try or tell him frankly that take care of you. And his children in a positive and friendly manner.

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Intimate relation in difficult times

In the midst of life and its problems, permeate the marital relationship attitudes and events may be difficult, and often affect these situations and conditions on the intimacy between the couple's relationship, and the affection that they met them, but it is possible that these difficult circumstances sometimes be the key to strengthening the relationship between the parties,Rather than be a motivation for the separation of intolerance conditions, or lack of understanding of one another, and it is not necessary that the ideal is always to do with the intimate atmosphere are available, there are some medical studies show that this relationship significant benefits even if exercised in times and circumstances may seem strange. here Advise you in this topic diligence on the relationship at specific times no matter how strange or looked the wrong time:

- time feeling ill

Many married couples think that the disease should preclude Intimate relation; because it needs for effort, while there are studies proving that Intimate relation strengthen the immune system and useful in cases of the disease, but of course are not cases of severe illness.

- In the morning:

 Although the Intimate relation associated with everyone at night, but it can be made in the morning, where not Be testosterone ratio. And energy levels high, but the increase in oxytocin levels maintains the link between you and your partner during the day, also raises endorphins mood.

- Case of bad mood:

 requires work tension and Traffic Transport and provocative attitudes to private moments forget the burden of such negative attitudes, and intimacy may help alleviate tension.

- Times fatigue after sports and arduous tasks:

Rather than rest after sports Intimate relation could be helpful, sport is working on blood flow in the body, raising the desire rate. And increases the harmony between the couple.

- Before embarking on a difficult or mission critical:

Let's imagine that a couple in the process of an important job interview or a meeting, and here. Look Intimate relation before going, effective in calming nerves and lower blood pressure, and thus relieve anxiety and tension.

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Kinds of The lies and Personal Injury that destroys marriages

Lies Personal Injury stems from the imagination of women specifically, and ratification may lead to disastrous results. And that some women make up lies and believe her. And it is trying to delve deeper into its ratification to lead to negative results, and after the women come to its senses, to find that too late.There are several types of delusional lies that contribute to a defect in the married life, and perhaps the resulting complete destruction of marriage, what are these lies?

- Absolute happiness.It is the purpose of marriage:

Some women believe that marriage. If not brings. Happiness is unworthy to continue in it, and this is a lie and a fake trying to build many of them married life, women must not feel this happiness hypothesis becomes the marriage for her without meaning.There is no absolute happiness in anything .. there are varying degrees of happiness, feeling varies between the woman and the other. Marriage is, of course, must be combined with a sufficient degree of happiness, but the question is who is not facing marital problems? Not right, some women claim that they do not face any marital problems; because the coexistence between a man and a woman under one roof leads to friction and drawbacks.

-  I do not love my husband, but I will live with him forever in marriage:

Dangerous in this lie is that we can not afford the behaviors of those are far from love towards us for too long, or forever as you say some women. It is right to say that we will try to carry the behavior of those who do not love us in the attempt to preserve the marriage, and the expectation that it will come on and comes love, or perhaps partner learns how to love.There are many cases where the love comes after marriage. But the argument that marriage lasts forever without love is the wrong argument.

- Unethical behavior does not affect the marriage:

The study showed that there are people, particularly men, believe that there is no relationship between the lack of ethics and marriage, that any person can be immoral, but it can continue in the marriage. This is also one of the lies that under the illusion that they are correct in our imagination, but  it is serious lie.

- Betrayal partner once or two does not affect marriage This lie is believe it that some 70% of men, according to statistics reported by the study, of betraying once. It can betray more, so to say that treason few times do not affect the marriage is a lie. This lie does not last; because if exposed. Married life will be destroyed. But it depends on the degree of readiness of partner for amnesty for the other because of treason, it has been proven that the majority of women and men can not bear the brunt of infidelity.

- She married the wrong partner:

There are those who try to believe that they were married to the wrong partner. It would be wrong to judge the whole married life through the brawl one, but there are those who believe that the quarrel that has occurred, especially if there is a large wound to the feelings, means that the marriage was with the wrong partner, forget that married life is to give the necessary opportunities for improvement. And this lie phantom remain stuck in the mind of the partner to the point of possibly evolving in the imagination, one idea that marriage was not according to expectations.

-There is no match in Opinion:

Opposition to the other opinion that something normal was in ordinary life or marital; but there are couples who creates in his mind based on that difference of opinion means that the marriage failed fake lie. From this point we have to realize that people have different views between, we have not only accepted, but also respect.Such Flam phantom formed in the mind of those who have a personal authoritarian, where he believes that the lack of approval for each partner what he says or difference of opinion means that the marriage failed, and this thinking can destroy already married life.

- Breaking the tradition of marriage is not important:

This also is one of the lies phantom; because. Break the positive traditions in marriage is not healthy. One example is the stop participating in child-rearing or neglect, and the belief that they will learn life for themselves. This also includes breaking traditions related aspect of intimacy; such as stop caressing between the couple, and considering the relationship between them and are not very important in marriage.

- There is no hope in improving the lives of married couples

The fake lie in the belief that married life can not be improved, the emergence of some of the problems that are normal with all couples. And right here is the belief that everything in life Negotiable development and improvement, including marriage. If there is a defect must think about how to resolve it; things are going to make towards better. It has been proven that a lot of wives and husbands were able to overcome adversity and improve the marriage away from thinking of divorce as a solution.

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The most important errors that occur during intimacy

Women in our societies seek to delight her husband, and especially in the intimacy relationship because of the internal sense, who grew up with her in the importance of the happiness of the pair primarily ignored her feelings and needs. But Personal Injury and access to the satisfaction between the parties is linked mainly to make every party has the maximum to achieve satisfaction and happiness of the other party and for himself, and employment possibilities available to him to become more attractive to the opposite party.and Here are some mistakes are located where the wife during sexual intercourse:

-The man does not read what's on your mind:You know it's difficult for the wife to talk with her husband about what she loves. For fear of his reaction and how it will look, but it is important also to guide the pair as she likes, and the use of her intelligence in directing during the relationship and be amazed by the results.

- Do not refuse during the relationship:If you are tired or exhausted or do not have a desire to practice intimacy. Refuse and apologized before starting a relationship. Do not wait to go half the distance and then refuses because this would raise the narrow and will feel that the reason for its rejection related to him.

- Be initiative sometimes: When you feel the desire wife, you must give a signal to the pair, this would make him happy and will feel that this is not his mission alone. I know you're afraid rejected, but how the pair would be happy. When he knows it desirable. The wife does not fear rejection even if it has happened and refused to be does not have the desire or tired now, as with her happens sometimes.

- Dialogue During the relationship: The wife know the nature of her husband and nature Do you like talk time relationship. Or sensory communication The most important and most powerful? This is due to the nature of each couple, but from time to time on them to surrender to the feelings only  And leave the emotions as they are speaking.

- The relationship does not end when the end of your husband: The wife may think that intimacy is over when The end of the pair, but this is not true, the relationship ends with the consent of the parties, it is necessary to be honest with the wife of her husband feelings and the degree of sufficiency.

- Do not reject his proposals: Intimate relationship, like any relationship in life you need to renew, and men usually like after a period of follow a certain routine, change and renewal not refuse or feel that he lost his desire to you, but the opposite receptive the idea and receptive to test a new way because they usually will increase your enjoyment.

-Wear exciting clothes: Choose a wife her clothes feel comfortable and at the same time help her to show her femininity in front of her partner, plays a key role in making it more charm and excitement to her husband.

-The lighting in the room: The wife has to stay away from the use of lighting is friendly intimate times, choice of suitable lighting allows creating the atmosphere through the exercise of intimacy. Therefore, we recommend choosing low light and low power lamps and lights candles that improve mood.

- Hair Removal: The wife diligence before starting an intimate relationship to ensure that the body is clean and free of hair, and it is soft enough to make it more exciting.

*And finally that the more successful the communication between the wife and husband in all walks of life surely will be a successful intimate relationship.

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Scents that separates the couple during intimate relation

intimate relation based on the approach and cohesion between the two parties, the convergence of loving lover offset by the convergence of physical full in this relationship, but the couple may correspond some drawbacks that create disharmony between them, and the most prominent of these drawbacks bad breath, so we will shed light on these lines on the reasons that may this leads to the smell, and how to avoid and deal with them able to enjoy an intimate relationship harmonious:

- Mouth odor problem most likely be a presentation of the disease, and should treat the disease until it has passed, the most important cause of this smell as follows diseases.

- Reasons related to the care of the cleanliness of the mouth and teeth, as well as gum disease and periodontal infections, as well as the teeth diseases such as cavities.

- reasons related illnesses nose and pharynx. Like sinus infection, and pharyngitis.

- reasons. Related to the respiratory system such as chronic .

- Reasons related to the digestive system such as growth of bacterial and constipation.

- odors may be caused by eating foods with unpleasant smell.

*The first step in getting rid of this scourge in addressing the reasons mentioned and avoid foods with unpleasant odors before practice intimate relationship.

_You can do several great steps to ensure that you and your partner grainy smell of mouth, through the following:

- Put always a kind of rinsing the mouth with strong and refreshing smell, as always will work to clean the mouth and eliminate any bacteria type and make a refreshing smell.

-Put next to your bed. Elegant vessel. Fill it with candy colored and distinctive to you  favorite flavors, and when it starts in caresses and whispered Give him one, and another eat to be beautiful flavor in your relationship.

-You can use the machine gun of the mouth freshener and place it next to the bed permanently, if one of the parties felt the need to use faster.

-Add the spices with aromatic scents for your food.

Do not be shy of openness while you suffer from it, and you agree with your partner on the interest in the subject and the application of the proposals mentioned and go to the doctor in the case was that causes a disease must be cured medically.

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The qualities that loves the man in women

The man always wants to see certain qualities in his partner make it distinctive and renewed their relationship and also a balanced relationship. But some women ignore these qualities amid concerns of everyday life.   Leading to to chill the relationship between them and perhaps secession.

That every man has a different style of its own specific recipes coexist with it, for every woman to know her husband to a personal style and focus on what he loves to become a renewed and happy her marital life.and here The most important qualities of the beloved men in women:

-Attention: if the details of his day care and necessary, and care about their appearance and personal cleanliness, and her house all the time.

-Respect:The woman respect husband during their conversation do not raise their voices or cut his speech, and to respect him in his decisions not argue with him a lot.

-Be his mother and a sister and a daughter sweetheart.

-Tenderness: in every man a child is in need of permanent containment, always work to cater to his needs and desires and bitch about negative emotions resulting from any problem.

-Every man has the cache inside it, rational nature of man. Silent during subjected to any pressure or negative exciting. Do not ask him at the time and provoke his silence being a close and will only talk after the time on his own.Even talked about something,Do not reveal  his secret Or argue in it.

-Be supportive of him and you always feel his confidence and his strong self-confidence.

-The man accurate and practical if you want that understands Do not intrusive in the small details in any discussion.

-Be renewed always with him. So he does not feel bored.

-Be receptive to him close to him and feel him safe and quiet.

-Stay away from the urgency and the large number of requests at once, and be patient.

-Do not ask about the details, because most men do not like to talk about the details of the topics and satisfied by giving an outline only, if the subject was simple. Do not insist on knowing the details.

-A kind face and smile: the smile itself is a passport to the hearts of others to you, let alone your life partner? Make sure not to dissociation smile your face whatever happens.

-Reply with «Yes»: Of course not all the time you have to answer to «Yes», but the fact that most men want to hear this phrase first response to any request or question, and then discuss later on the subject, so be smart and answer this sentence in the beginning, even your spouse feel satisfied then discussed with him and then try to access what you would like to use a beautiful way.

-Not to tamper with his own objects: from papers and files and related work, arranged for him. Without something to throw them in the trash before you ask him.

-You are always welcomed him at the door when he returns from work with some good words to say as well as during the morning going to work, that would make him feel appreciated and you love him.

-Voice soft and low: Do not raise your voice to shout always get irritated with your husband it is a big part of your femininity. General men. Is not inclined to women with a higher sound.

-Innovative food and cuisine: There is no doubt that the way to a man's heart stomach is an inescapable fact. Make sure always to innovate cuisine appetite for your husband and your family.

-Prayer and worship together: the highest moments that bring you with your husband is to go to worship together will give it the tranquility of a large and tranquility on your relationship.

-Fun surprises: surprise him, for example, typing the word «I love you» By lipstick on the bathroom mirror to see him in the morning or send romantic message his phone a work.

-Finally decorate his Take care of yourself and your appearance is always inside and outside the home. Also Take care of personal hygiene and cleanliness of your children and your home.

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Tips for married-how to build a happy life?

Retaining the intimate life may require effort after having children. But you can target the obstacles that complicate matters, especially if you're a new mother feel frustration and resentment, anxiety or fatigue, and you are busy providing all feelings of love to the new baby.Here are some things that will help you get rid of these feelings and build a happy relationship.

You feel frustrated.If you spent the whole day to take care of your child, and your husband returned from work to sit in front of the TV, it must be that you feel frustrated; because your life is changed as larger. That possibility may be difficult rapprochement between you.

The discomfort of this will increase the tension for both parties, it is likely that he is considering how to provide living his new family, and work hard and extra time rather than helps in child care.So you have to control your feelings and trying to help the pair. And walk together in building a happy family.

-Fatigue. You enter with him in the responsibility.Because the desire for the intimacy associated with mental situation, it is likely that the ongoing fatigue.It makes you move away from sexual intercourse more than your husband.If the husband gets to sleep more than you,and he does not help you in the care of the child at night.explain to him about the need for a balance, and say to him that if you got more comfortable you'll feel worthwhile, and you are more desirable.

-The elimination of resentment through achieve a balance

During maternity leave may cause you not to balance your energy resentment.You work and you love to spend your money on what you want, but you are now committed to spending on the child.So you have to distribute spending between you and your husband,  becouse if you feel that you provide the most is another problem,So try to see your husband on such things as the price of diapers and wet wipes. And be sure to show affection like hugging.

-If you're at home with your child, it is obvious that hugs the child sufficiently all day long, and when your husband back. You will be need time to yourself. When your husband returns,WELCOMES him  and tell him carries the child and explain to him that you are in need to spend 20 minutes alone.

The table was crowded throughout the week, try the allocation of time to each other over the weekend

-The new accept your role and your body things that may give rise to anxiety. You turned into a source of nutrition for the child, and it is difficult to return to the beautiful and attractive mentality becouse The big tummy after childbirth does not help you on that too,But remember that sense of intimacy linked. And not just appearance.

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The most important reasons for the refusal to engage in a new romantic relationship

The first emotional experience is the key luck for many women, if they had experienced what the experience is successful or failed, the reaction to be either two women looking for a new relationship. To forget the first relationship, or to remain aloof from entering into a new experience, possibly due to one of the following reasons:

-First of all, women may tend to show a lack of interest to the other party. Because she does not feel as attractive to her, so instead of wounding others. Direct rejected. You must tend to show that the extent of the difference for the other person to explain the rejection indirectly.
As well as the wrong time for the emergence of the new relationship. As women need enough time to get rid of the effects of a previous romantic relationship or to regroup and regain their self-confidence again, or perhaps because they are not interested in love at the time.
- One of the reasons also is that women have been kind of feelings towards the person and also be impressed by the other party, but the fear of rejection and lack of confidence in herself makes her retreat from continuing in this admiration and finish it before it starts.
-Of the reasons for not entering into a new relationship is different beliefs and views, whether political or religious, for example, or the difference in the simple things favored by each party. These differences are not specific, but is determined by the two parties tendencies and beliefs.
-It is also the form of the body and the way clothes coordination of important things in the first meeting, which may contribute to the rejection or acceptance, the appearance of the body and how to deal have a significant factor in determining the decision by the other party.
There are also personal attributes make us refuse to enter into a new romantic relationship, for example, excessive jealousy or chatter, and others.

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The most important things for the success the marital relationship .

The marital relationship the highest and most sacred relationship on earth, it is the basis of creation, the reconstruction of the ground mission on human responsibility, and we see in the present day that the family courts have been crowded with issues and disputes family of divorce, custody and expense and other, and the reason is not due to physical inability, we see people below the poverty line and live happily, do not deny that the wrong choice for a life partner is sometimes through lack of choice on religious or ethical standard, but according to the physical conditions, there are always elements for the success the marital relationship and fed so as not to wither and crumble with time. and here i will give you The most important things for the success the marital relationship:

-Mutual respect:

Married life is no control of one party over another party, but is a project life of two people are moving life easy and difficult times together, the wife is not a servant of the husband, and the husband is a slave then, but married life is a mutually complement each other.

-Interests:

Anything neglected will crash, as well as the hearts Few attention between spouses weaken feelings and snowing emotions, at times resorted each party to last until compensates this deprivation suffered, as the two sides should pay attention to the appearance and maintain personal hygiene and to wear perfume so as not to alienate the other party

-Frequent complaint:

It is not a rebellion and machining to be a complaint of materialism, but of thinking and the principles or anything else.

-Ridicule:

We find a couple making fun of hobbies, ideas or other party leanings with the knowledge that the female is not forgiven derision by more, she is created for flirting with her and compose her poems, and wound or ridicule their guilt unforgivable, if one of the parties showed the idea of what then, the other that encouraged do not make fun of him, and opinion and the other opinion without mockery, ridicule and attitudes between spouses filled with ridicule from the people and the relatives of the other party.

-Understanding:

Of the finest pictures impartiality of the person for his opinion only and the marginalization of the other party, renounce his opinion, marital Life ship. Two people traveling in and led the whole family.

-Tolerance:

What a beautiful word sorry tell her when one of the parties to the other, even if he was not at fault, it is the best way to strengthen the relationship between them.

-Depart from the routine:

Be out for red tape. That the parties will come out one day for dinner abroad or stay up at somewhere or go trip, it renews the framework of married life and goes boredom. And Recycling her life

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How to be the most beautiful bride on your wedding?

Every girl wants to look the most beautiful bride on her wedding day, but feel panicked when the countdown begins, and the approaching date of the ceremony as still has a lot of things and arrangements that have not done not only in relation to the ceremony, but also its beauty. There are things you need for a long time to become okay, such as the black aura or damaged hair, tired skin, teeth, and excess kilos and other things that we must take care of them well to show the best case on the night of a lifetime.

If you have one month to the wedding date there is a way to turn into a beautiful and brilliant bride through this group of expert tips.

-Start of the skin:

Cosmetic experts advise to start intensive skin care before the wedding date four weeks, and this care must include the face and entire body. So it has to be the quality of food and attention to care because the beauty of the skin starts from the inside.

Prepare your skin to be brilliant and shining through food, adequate sleep and drink plenty of water, and visit to an expert skin to work deep cleaning of the skin and remove the grain and blackheads, and work masks gentle and peeled the skin and massage creams feeder many times during this month until you get a clear complexion and supple in Day Your Wedding

-Hands and nails:

The appearance of your hands is very important in your wedding, and especially as it will appear with pictures during the switch wedding ring, so it should look clear and smooth, So try to work peeling daily natural to your hands at home and moisturizing creams moisturizing,You as well Nail Care since the beginning of this month because it will give your hands look more beautiful national cutting his nails and moisturizing natural oils, lemon, remember not to use them as a tool to break things. Thus, to maintain its beauty and its length.

-Weight loss:

It is necessary to a healthy diet and regular exercise because it is the best way to lose weight safely, but if you did not come down and your weight as you would like and started time running out to you it is best to consult a doctor to prescribe some medications that help you to more quickly lose weight, as well as nutritional supplements necessary for your body, because you get a beautiful body as a body supermodels on the day of your wedding.

Teeth:

On this day, must all be complete, integrated and certainly you'll be smiling all day, so it must be beautiful and distinctive white smile, you attention to your teeth cleaned toothpaste special bleaching teeth, and if I felt that it did not become a white 20 days before the wedding. Visit the doctor to whiten your teeth before the wedding

-Cellulite:

Of spam that cellulite distorts the beauty of your body, so you must be careful to use the dissolving cellulite creams as well as natural recipes with a massage as well as dieting to rid the body of accumulated toxins and cellulite and you get a svelte and beautiful body

Hair:

A month before the wedding date. Is the perfect time to choose the hair and color story that should be featured during the honeymoon, as you should know to start your hair and nutrition bathrooms oil, creams and natural masks that would return him to shine and vitality, as well as to change its color by 10-15 days at least if you intend it

-Remove excess hair and eyebrows in the body:

You can choose the method that suits you to remove excess hair and will be the hot wax of the best means to you get a soft body and skin distinctive and polished, as you have to leave your eyebrows are growing month before the date of your wedding, then you remove excess hair before their wedding one day. Thus On the day of your wedding you will be expected already the most beautiful bride Her views at all

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How to attract someone you like?

Do you encounter someone raised to like but did not notice you among the large public or central concern, and you did not know how to share chatted with him? Do not despair, you can open a dialogue with someone draw your attention simple ways including the following:

-Ask him about time: It is true that classic question, but it's work,  may you consider it has become old-fashioned mobile phones in time, but dear you can turn off your phone , claiming that the battery is finished, it is how you open the field and draws to you simply look.
-Ask for help: the most prominent qualities of the man that he still possess those standards and values that necessitate the provision of assistance while him so requests, especially by a woman you are, do not make it difficult matter him, you can ask him to help you take the purpose for the top shelf, for example, or carry your purposes, and then you have the opportunity to exploit chatted with him.
-Ask him about the way: It is known that women do not know trends, unlike men who mastered instinctively, if you're in the mall, or on the road you can ask for a hand do you want to mean directly or in the near future to open up space to talk between you.
-Resemble someone I know: it is an ideal way to talk with someone, ask him that question, which seems a real big margin, yet can to look at him and transformative expressions of your face about remembering and thinking and inquiry, is he a friend of yours at school, or a professor, or a friend brother, invented any Personal likening it be called a lot to clarify kinship, then the talk will evolve alone.

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The things that attract men to women

Beauty standards vary from one man to another, as some men prefer women full of textures, while others prefer to lean textures female, but that there recipes agreed upon most men today, which draws their attention, and attract their attention in a woman

-Full of textures to lean to some extent: the textures like some men, especially her big chest and rear, most men prefer to be a partner of their lives and future. Size chest and the back of the acceptable.

-Black hair and brown: from more hair colors favored by men, in contrast to the blond and red blatant, as men prefer a woman who is on nature.

-Soft skin: are preferred for different men, everybody would like to have their wives feel soft like children.

-Dark eyes to honey: the favorite colors for men, terms men falls in love with this female eyes.

-Long hair: Most men prefer the drop-down of long-haired women, unlike short hair, it is women appear more feminine and beautiful.

-White-skinned women: female these colors are the favorites in men more than dark skin.

-Smile: Smile plays a big role in attracting men to you, the man hates sad woman, and this does not mean that intrusive in a wave of laughter is no justified, but no harm to smile every now and then during a meeting.

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