Showing posts with label MARRIED TIPS. Show all posts
Showing posts with label MARRIED TIPS. Show all posts
Sunday, May 29, 2016
Specifications ideal for women who sought by a man
By Unknown5:45 AMLOVE AND ROMANCE, MARRIED TIPS, ONLY FOR WOMEN, THE PECULIARITIES, UNCATEGORIZEDNo comments

- Proof of more than 90% of men admit they may take advantage of the good and vulnerable women and live with her a romantic relationship or a special relationship away from the marriage, but they love and respect bold women, because the weak may be boring and non-renewable in the relationship. There is no need of them only a quiet and warm times, but quickly moving away them. Not marry her only the man who likes to control or who wants to comfort his problems and dialogue, this was confirmed by a recent US study.
Wednesday, May 25, 2016
How to reconcile the love and study?
By Unknown12:30 PMLOVE AND ROMANCE, MARRIED TIPS, ONLY FOR WOMEN, THE PECULIARITIES, UNCATEGORIZEDNo comments

Between the dreams of love and achievement and passion for education and his ambition, girls are at a loss .Which is most important: to be a family life of their own, or give up love for the sake of ambition education and upgrading, which will arrive at the end of the day to the highest levels of practical ambition, and prove self? And any roads better, two options are both irreplaceable in life, but it is necessary to find a formula together to achieve this.
- Once girls reach the age of majority. Changing society's perception of her, the girl entered in the female framework in which to be linked to partner life to build a family's future, as well as the matter is not free from the dreams of pink girl and Knight life, their own wishes to get love full her emotions, so we find some of the girls under the age of twenty or slightly above it to enter the world of love or marriage, with consequent great responsibilities, then it shall meet love life with loads of study, which infect turmoil and confusion, which one you choose: build a family or build a practical future?
- Love is beautiful and likable of the same, but you should pay attention before you fall into it and the abolition of the mind and make the heart is what controls the emotions, make us choose the wrong road, and this is where most of the young girls fall, and the girl's education is a weapon. Which strengthens the confidence and simmer of her personality, and makes her opinion and thought assisted to overcome the difficulties of life in all the wisdom and rationality, and there is nothing to prevent that meets the love and science together, but in the context of credibility and openness with restraint and not to raise the balance on the other.
- Of course preferably not rush the girl throws herself and her feelings on the first word love respond to becomes aware of, or be exposed to the insistence of the parents in her marriage being exceeded adulthood and that is the march of life, so be that the girl put the basic conditions for her life and her future to achieve a balance between the two, without wandering in so, which are:
_ Objective: You must put your scientific goals aspire to reach it. Not waive achieved; science is a weapon of life and knowledge.
_ Maturity: Be mature intellectually Despite the small age do not claim any external influences affecting the fateful decision to admit you may change the future of a world which you wish to have.
_ Be patient: Do not rush, hoping to earn love, so make sure before you found the sincere love that support you and increase your success.
_ Put your accounts: through the pros and cons account, and any tip will tend for you, and the introduction of consultation, and bitch about the rush to any external cause may be exposed to it.
_ Respect: Learn to respect the emotions and respect for the value of education, Both are an integral part. And it must not be separated with each other Each complements the other indirectly.
- , That the possession of the certificate is very important for its future, as well as also love and marriage, because God created us to complete our lives partner last to achieve the dream of motherhood beautiful, and can not find any objection to that love and the study is consistent with each other if found true love and partner, who improves to be treated in them, and helps her to pass the stages and completed her education to study, but if placed in the check box. You will choose love. And the link, it is the top of her happiness and priorities, and full belief that love does not object with academic achievement,But it is an incentive to him, so you should choose a life partner carefully; because of love will seek definitely successful, successful The girl is that you can have all Life Tools of love and marriage, study and work without being the victim of one of them lies, all in the first and foremost is located on of your choice for shared her life ,And on the strength of its confidence and ambition, the girl refused to marry because science is not completely right will result in damage to many in the community, and this has lead to an increase of sedition and corruption of society, and moral chaos.
- The girl is interested in nature with love, and is also interested in proving self, life is beautiful and dreamy alone is not enough to make a living, and must strive to build the future. As well as the girl someday will be a mother, and would seek to educate their children, they must be on the amount of adequate science to create a new generation, and will get to do it, but science. It weapons should not surrender it, as well as love is what makes life better person, real loving seeks to delight partner. And be of help to him not it, Love gives a great boost,But more important to differentiate between love and desire so as not to fall into the labyrinths, and should parents are sensitive and conscious to respect our views and desires of support. No coercion, everything has its time and its beauty, not in favor of urgency to end one of the two roads, Parents help us their experiences that enrich our thoughts and our decisions if available understanding and dialogue .
Tuesday, May 24, 2016
Tips for girls before they fall in love
Love is one of the exams pass out in your life, but differs from the rest of the exams that everyone may evade the exercise, everyone is accelerating to love without any prior preparation it, abound questions by girls about love, and how to fall into it, and the most appropriate time for it,But is every girl ask themselves. If you were eligible for this love? And how they work to get it in order not to fall in a bad choice and rush, which may be a reason for feeling remorse throughout her life? In the following lines, the solution to that problem for you to open up broad prospects love to see another concept was absent from you, so as a new window through which to overlook your emotions and how to budget in order to avoid taking a failure in love.
- The girl does not know in a lot of times if what you feel is the true love that will live forever or is it just love transient full emotional desires no more, Girls usually fall in love gap rapidly as a result of the lack of emotional gratification, resorting to satisfy it by searching for loving. Which expresses her words of love and compassion,Often the girl begin to search for love from the age of "14 years", as suffering during this period of turmoil in the identity and look for proof of the same, whether in love or study or talent, it is important to prove that it is a phenomenon in society and beloved, we find some of the girls may resorted to this kind of emotional love, and deflects behind it to prove identity,As we can see others happy words of praise and spinning, due in a lot of times to loss their touch of parental caring and containment fraternal tenderness emanating from the mother, which detract from their own emotion, resorts to compensate from the outside, and there are girls although because they are within the family range loving and full of feelings abundant,However, they are drifting behind blind imitation, and jealous of their friends stories. their having a lover, the girl seeks to be like them to show for herself that it does not lack anything like them and the same, and this of the most dangerous things, some girls weak souls. Resort to telling stories And lies The highlights in the vicinity of girlfriends.
- But what the girls should pay attention it. That true love has the conditions and does not come in vain, but you deserve. Always looking to it and keep it in your life, as you learn how to pick it love, it will not come only put some important foundations that help you in your life in order not to fall in the wrong illusions of love, and the most important of these principles:
- Self-realization:
Achieved yourself by reaching for your goals and your ambitions in your life that you want to the future, they are the basis of your identity and your character pillars that will support your confidence and you are independent personality.
- Select age-appropriate:
Before thinking in to experience love, live your age level, and to postpone the decision to love after you reach the age of majority, in order to Being enjoyed all stages of your age, not wearing a dress emotional maturity and you are still small it.
- Do not Rush into love:
Rush into love to get emotional gratification may sign you into a well of remorse and failure in love as a result of a bad choice. Before that draws your feelings of love you have to go easy in order to improve choice.
- balancing the mind and heart:
The balance between the mind and heart in the feelings of love, do not let emotion control you. Be canceled your thinking, which in turn will take you and guide you to know right from wrong, and you evaluate things with your mind first before you routed to your heart.
- Honesty with yourself:
Being honest with yourself before you fall in love, and wondered: Is this love sincere. Or just a love of tradition and placebo or to hear the words of love and spinning. Satisfy the ego and emotions? If you believe with yourself. You will then know what you want from that love.
- Maintaining your values:
Do not let drift behind Love cancel your values and your principles and your morals that you arose them, even the man does not care is not seen the girl started insulting her dignity and reputation out of love. But would prefer a girl who sticks to customs and morals and values, whatever the temptations of love in front of him.
- Put the foundations for your partner:
You have to put your specifications for the man of your dreams, as embodied the image in your mind of its shape and emotions, you should put your foundation sound morals and his commitment to his work and his knowledge, man sincere hard in his life is committed to morality and full of morality and true manhood to be able to create a secure future for himself and his family.
Monday, May 23, 2016
Apathy among the reasons for the couple and how the treatment
Marital relations collide often coolly passionate cause away from the other person may sometimes go away or the demise of the reasons may remain, leaving many problems may amount to a final separation or search for another haven,Here we talk about the causes of apathy in the relationship between the couple and how we process its, including:
- The possible impact of some social or economic pressures faced by the family on an emotional and psychological behavior when one of the spouses or when both, but this is circumstantial and disappear with the demise of the implications of the problem.- To be one of them. Few intelligence in relation to the intimate relationship, in the sense that it is very reassuring that the other loves him no matter what the performance and quality of the relationship, leading to a failure to do any effort to please the other. Based on the love that unites them, do not they return cares about each other in terms of appearance or exchange gifts and fine words and other things that improve the relationship and attract one to the other.- Laziness in the behavior of one of the spouses is no longer so interested in the other to the wishes and the likes of perfume, and listen to music, watch movies, and the quality of a particular food, clothes, a car,And it becomes everyone do not bother to think and search for aesthetic and positive elements in the other character and appearance- Indifference occasions (birthday feast, feast marriage ..), which are of interest to women a lot, and here it must be noted that the gift remember the last beautiful days of a person of love.- Lack of respect for the privacy of others. Within manners, his personality, what he likes and dislikes and within the scope of his work,If a person has used to read the newspaper in the morning, for example. His wife comes to him and removed the grounds that it does not care about its, or if a woman has become accustomed to sleeping longer hours in the morning. The pair comes to wake her early every day. The same applies to the intimate relationship between them, it is not enough to have work mechanically, but there must be a permanent space for emotional harmony between the two parties by revealing what loves. What hated each other during intimacy.- The introduction of an external negative element. The sense of extramarital bilateral, home, meaning the introduction of the problems that one party may suffer in his work or with friends or family, for example, to the house.- Not taking into account the professional and social progress of each party remains of the two other seen in the same way that was seen in the past and wants to treat him a sense of superiority from his place of work or position.* Tips to strengthen the marital relationship:- Regeneration in the routine of life, the meaning of change some usages routinely boring, such as changing hairstyle, fragrance user, the restaurant, which often met him out every day holiday.- Regeneration in emotional harmony means that from time to time the launch of a range of compliments the other and made to understand that he still has the aesthetic aspects, do not need to be old, but emerging, raise the morale of the other.- To get away from all the negatives and everyday things that previously mentioned and lead to apathy in the relationship between the couple.- Permanent hope in life and the preservation of mental Youth, as it works to strengthen the relationship more.
Must be given the intimacy of great importance, marriage is not only the search for consistency in ideas only, Agreement intellectual good, but must be given the intimacy importance because they are granted by the continuity of marriage and supports the relationship more, especially that all men are looking forward to this issue and see it as essential.
Sunday, May 22, 2016
Problems in the intimate relation
A lot of husbands and wives is believed that the man is responsible for the start of intimate relation, and it is always and never formatted and ready to her, and this belief is not true, where we find that some of the wives feel no desire in the marital relationship, but they are able to keep up with the pair to some extent, it has been the progress of women many excuses that indicate a lack of desire or willingness to intimate relationship, and although it can interact with the husband during the relationship, but for a man can not be prejudiced against himself. Or flattering his wife when his unwillingness,Because it requires a certain amount of excitement, and that does not happen without desire, and here the problem comes when the wife believes that the pair might desire it, or that it has other alternatives to get the satisfaction and gratification, and we find through medical practice that men who suffer from this problem are afraid or ashamed to discuss it with their wives, and resort to ask for help; either by popular herbal treatment, either at the request medical help.so here The reasons why some couples stop intimate relation, and are either temporarily, or even permanently:
- Intimate with a man need to practice two key factors must be present for together; Group I: the desire in the relationship in any of its forms; of self-practice or with a partner. The second factor: the ability to carry out this desire. If any malfunction occurred in one of these two elements, or both; it happens that a man begins to anxiety, which in itself is one of the factors that negatively affect the intimate practice, and I'll show you many of the reasons that make the man stop or refrain from practice with partner,But not necessarily to stop the practice of self, which is one of these reasons, and can be summarized in the following elements.
- The effect of some medicines, which are used to treat certain diseases, whether organic; such as drugs lower blood fat, or psychotropic drugs; such as some types of antibiotics or depression treatments, and should not forget here that the most important diseases that lose the man libido is depressed disease.
- Inability to sleep and the incidence of insomnia for any reason may be related to the physical aspect, work or physical fatigue and other reasons, also it found that some men who suffer from sleep disorders or apnea during sleep; also suffer from the disorder in the desire intimate relationship.
- Deficiency in the level of hormones in the body, especially the hormone testosterone, which results in some symptoms such as breast hypertrophy and lack of facial hair. And body generally, must work here lab tests; to see the levels of these hormones, with the measure thyroid hormone also; because in the case of severe decline intimate relation affected.
- Disorder in sexual identity, which is rare, and usually show symptoms in the early stages of age; where feel the man believed to be a woman, and be inclinations towards the same sex, but not as in cases of homosexuality, and this disorder appears on the behavior a lot of signs that make man acting at the belief that female, and we find some families tend to marry off their children; believing that this will help to treatment. and this belief is not true.
- The existence of deep differences with the wife.
- Psychological pressure and the presence of psychological problems deep need to specialized treatment,; the husband is suffering from a sense of guilt to you, and here should be subject to the treatment of behavioral; to help get rid of this negative feeling inside; even improve psychologically has also must pay attention to the fact that he can not procreation, and whether there are alternatives such as caring for orphans, and even from family, what makes it more able to cope with the painful realities of life.
- Some couples tend to practice self-excitement, or what is known as the secret habit, as a substitute for intimacy, especially if there are some matters relating to the comments, and even if they were not intended by the wife, making him estranged from common practice, and here we need to find out more things about the dynamics of the marital relationship, and the things that I would advise them always to resort to clinics marital counseling, and identify the problem more accurately and closely, with an emphasis on the above mentioned expectations in intimate relationships, and differences between the couple.
Some men suffer in silence, and may not know that the wife may be the primary catalyst to get rid of a lot of negative feelings in men, especially if the forecasts are based on realistic grounds, and without the tendency to judgment before knowing the hidden side of the problem.
Saturday, May 21, 2016
Cons marginalization of the wife emotionally
Family life between the spouses is based on the equation Equal aspects, but it may occur Some behaviors between them lead to scratch married life that depend on the bases Foundations can only be built by, and those behaviors that put significant barriers between the couple marginalization husband to his wife, and live in a family environment inhabited by silence, which would result in a lack of affection between the spouses.
- It is often this marginalization as a result of lack of understanding of the other party, the man deals with a wife like to have their needs and requirements herself as a man, and there is a big difference between them, each race his way of thinking and expression, the husband when the behavior of marginalization does not know the impact on his wife, acting on the requirements and needs, so marital problems lies in the first years of marriage; because it results in a lot of negative results that include parties.
- When a man does not reflect the feelings commensurate with the needs of women, it her feel emotional frustration and the gradual withdrawal in a lot of things, trying to be that passion saturation in various ways, including: excessive overload as eating or binging purchase, or go out and hung up friends, has up to depression, and in the some cases may fall marital infidelity, and sometimes alienated from the marital relationship of the sense of alienation with her husband.
- If the husband express his love through intimate relationship, women want before it can flood the feelings to feel reassured and safety with the living, relationship intimacy of women in second place, and so unlike the man who this relationship be for him in the first place, the two may not realize that , the wife hates to be the key to love just to meet the sexual desire of the husband, and wants only love for love without anything else, the pair is successful intimate relationship it wanted to submit feelings of love enough,He should understand the thing that full his wife emotionally from the words of love, it is possible that spoken to her on his work only to tell her that he loves her, it protects women from any negative feelings, and may submit a Tender Touches like hugging before leaving the house or when he returned, and tenderly touching and fondled, in addition to the donated gifts Statistics, and remembers the day her birthday or their wedding day, and provides services and assistance they need to feel that he stands beside her, it her feel safe,It is possible to help her with some of the tasks. Or customize your time to communicate with her every day what you need express. Or to talk about what happened with her in this day of trouble at work or in education, and telling her husband what had happened with him in his work throughout the day or the problems faced, and each pair able to learn the way they have emotionally with his wife.
- More learning opportunities be after the error, all of husbands and wives may have committed many errors in the right of the other party, but more importantly, how to avoid the continuation, and adjust in our behavior toward the other end, the husband should understand the needs of the wife to ask her about the things that she loves , and the way of life that you want, every wife wants to show love in her husband's words and his eyes and attention, respect and appreciation and confidence that he loved her, as well as the wife to understand the needs of the spouse, So that she asks him what he wants them as his wife. Every couple wants respect and appreciation, acceptance and encouragement, admiration and stimulation, and the husband that is fully aware that married life is based on dialogue and openness with be between them, whether at the level of life General or the intimate relationship level, and it is important to draw the wife to the husband's attention you need and want, so it is important to draw the attention of the husband to his wife's needs and wants with all respect and love each other without the marginalization of one another, which may result in a reluctance by both parties, leading to the destruction of an entire family.
Friday, May 20, 2016
The importance of interaction during intimacy
Sounds during intimacy, is it true, does it have any scientific basis? And what if it were a nuisance or concern for a couple , or is it something does not require talking about it; being one of the things that should be discussed by the couple or to bear the other party and patient; because to talk about with your partner may cause more serious complications than just carry around,Some wives who suffer from the release of embarrassing and annoying sounds from their husbands during intimacy, or of couples complain of lack of verbal interaction during intimate practice. To speak on the subject in a scientific cause a lot of internal tension, which may cause an imbalance in the intimacy, with the identification of some of the facts on this subject will improve the intimate performance between spouses.
- The most hidden problems, which caused the demolition of marital relations, and pass in silence without paying attention the couple to the existence of solutions to save the marriage, the solution lies in dialogue, and to get to know what happens to women and men during intimacy, and the impact of what we learn and we see and hear about these interactions, etc. this may result in the demolition of taking decisions. And oppressive to the parties. Here I want to clarify some of the scientific facts on the subject of Sounds issued during intimacy:
- Social studies have shown that women are making sounds higher and more during intimacy. Of those that come from men, and usually these sounds be in the form of encouraging words for the pair, or take some form of primitive Sounds, which indicates a sense of fun, and we find men issuing more voices at the end of intimacy.
- Some couples feel the excitement up when they hear certain words and phrases, intimate, and which also includes jokes intimate, which increases the desire, while women often happy to hear words of praise and encouragement from her husband during intimacy.
- Some studies have shown that more than 84% of women may tend to fabricate occurrence of peak sexual intercourse, especially after a period of marriage, what makes a woman conjures loud sounds; a desire to speed up the excitement when the man to reach the peak, or even as a result of being bored and not real readiness the intimate relationship at this time, making the pair feel some discomfort in the change in the behavior of the wife.
- Coldness is one of the most common problems that work on the demolition of intimacy, one of the disorders that need to properly diagnose and treat scientific, not to punishment and divorce. It is important to mention here that some women who suffer from Coldness may bear the pressure on themselves in intimacy; because of the fear of social complications, which may end in divorce, while the treatment achieves a very high percentage of healing.
- Some wives get used to the traditional stereotype of the interaction, and the fear of starting spontaneously during intimacy, which gives the impression to the husband that performance just doing duty on the part of the wife, this also applies to some of the men who believe that the issuance of such Sounds may reduce the prestige or his respect for his wife and, unfortunately, some may believe that the modern generation of couples do not suffer from this problem, but the reality of what is happening reflects an imbalance in verbal communication during intimacy.
- Do you know the importance of these sounds in an intimate relationship? The answer, as defined by many «Yes» as increase the excitement of the two partners, and improves performance. Here information is not known to many people, which is that these voices increase blood flow to sensitive members for peak sexual intercourse better, and thus help to better mental health, and here let me offer some suggestions for you and your husband.
- Intimacy. Have many ways complementary to each; it may smell and sound and shape complement each other, and can not do without any of them; for fear of rushing provisions, or decisions that destroyed the marital relationship at a time when the defect can be treated before it is too late.
Thursday, May 19, 2016
The most important tips to avoid emotional apathy among couple
The most beautiful days of women in her life when it begins to love and relationship romance between her and the the pair, which starts from the days of courtship dominated by romance and love, never ends and makes women live in an atmosphere of rosy dreams even entering the marital home, With the end of the wedding and the wedding ceremony and the beginning of the honeymoon adoption bride dreams that they will live in is full of interesting and romance and the love that does not stop by the husband home,But some wives may shock the expiry interesting pair quickly and the end of the beautiful moments in all its details, she will find attention and love that was provided by the pair may still turning to apathy, indifference, They suffer from marginalization by their husbands and lack of attention to them, which could lead to a distant relationship with each other.
- Misconceptions most important reasons for apathy.
Many different reasons, and most important: the inability to break the barrier of shyness, locked up a lot of couples feelings and have no subsidy from their wives for the same reason, and often complain of wives of it with the pair distinctive in the rest of the aspects of family life, as there are some societal constraints wrong that makes a husband who gives a high priority of his interest in his wife an object of ridicule and sarcasm. Many couples are reluctant for fear of it.
Interesting that the wife her husband break the barrier of exclusion, should be the wife that makes him feel as proud of him and admire his personality and the ability of each of what he is doing effort to happiness, and when the pair that he appreciated both in its shape and his appearance or morals or his work or feel tender. Then feel that everything that offer is appreciated, thereby creating attention and care, which often are looking for ways wives away the distance between them.
- Cons emotional apathy.
The most important cons of emotional apathy between spouses It transforms the marital life of beauty and intimacy and happiness to dull life and vibrant, and the generation that arises in these families will be psychological growth distorted; because missed most important of its components, when passion loss inside the house walls may be searched it outside the walls, and this of the most serious threats to the family.
- Tips for newly married couples to avoid that crisis.
* The newly married wife should. Not to leave things more than aggravation and other deals are passively or marginalizing the pair of reciprocal. Or shortness act, but they must be conscious, and learn the characteristics and the nature of each party and the most important differences between them, each party has their own way of satisfying the requirements of form and substance differ from the other party.
* It is essential that there be some constant renewal of the typical married life such as travel, gifts and happy surprises, the monotony is the most important reason for the elimination of the beauty of the emotional life of the spouses.
* shyness exaggerated or unhealthy habits lead to express their feelings and meet the needs of a life partner to a decrease in the marital relationship.
Empathy and provide an opportunity for it, whether the participation of joy or sorrow so that each party is becoming the place beautiful for a partner of his life, reveal his moments of joy, and complain to him moments of pain, and finds the couple they have become one person knows each other interesting and affairs, strengthen the marital relationship between them.
Wednesday, May 18, 2016
The reasons that require concern for your partner
Intimacy between every couple of great relationship privacy, which is the main artery and the backbone of the success of the marital relationship as a whole, so we find that this relationship should receive the attention and care of the two parties, particularly women, who are considered effective by the engine, because the female highly sensitive nature to this relationship and intense fear of be shared by others in this relationship or affect the integrity and smooth of occurrence, should be very keen on the attention to any indication that would take away the purity of this relationship,These are some indicators that would adversely affect the relationship to be drew attention to it by the wife:
- The wife is afraid her husband of several things starting from the desire practices abnormal or the Forbidden request and not to enjoy only by, or frequent desire to watch pornographic films, or infidelity with other women, noting the presence of a number of indicators on conscious women monitored quietly.
- Monitoring of male friends if they are normal, and if they are married, who live on the fleeting relations; because this kind of friendships always been foot to destruction.
- Observe treated his friends to you if there was friction, sometimes they may treat you curious treatment,That's because they know that the pair has made treason.
- Be careful when you find that a man carrying a condom in spite of you are used to a contraceptive.
- Be careful when a man bought new underwear himself with the knowledge that you are accustomed to buy him all his things.
- Observe while trying to follow new ways of intimacy was not accustomed to do it.
- Pay attention also contrast from when he loses the desire without explaining the reasons.
- Be careful when you find scratches on any part of his body and can not explain to you the reasons for this.
- Observe when you find that he is not wearing a wedding ring in certain situations claiming forgotten.
- Observe the religious position and the extent of his interest and its application to acts of worship and is it in decline or not.
- Finally attention on the unusual appearance, as well as to monitor communications and how it relates to the location of electronic communication, and so is one of the phenomena is reassuring So try or tell him frankly that take care of you. And his children in a positive and friendly manner.
Tuesday, May 17, 2016
How do you deal with embarrassing questions kids?
Sex education often a topic talked about specialists in various fields; such as education, health and other disciplines involved in this matter, and still a lot of parents are showing some concern and reservation on the possible impact of such talk of exciting curiosity in children, or what is old appropriate to begin to explain such facts for children, and who should provide this information,And also how to explain, so as to achieve the main objective; it is raising children on the scientific basis of the values and the correct concepts, and also help to protect them from exposure to any form of harassment and sexual assault, which has become a major concern in the lives of parents and associations concerned with child and family affairs.Today we will explain how to deal with children embarrassing questions, and also when parents must start engaging with these things.
- Appropriate age to start in the application of such programs varies from one community to another, and should the mother begin to accustom the child first, and an early age to respect Members intimate privacy; so as not to commit certain acts unintended; such as: allowing a child to take a bath with his parents, or bathing with brothers,Whatever their age, and at first it is important that the mother begins to train herself on the answers of documented scientific sources, and be age-appropriate for the child in the early years, when he starts to ask questions, so be prepared not collapsed child, or lie; in an attempt to cover their sense of shame or the fear of knowledge.
- Who is can be done to provide such information to the child? Sometimes pre-school age, find the mother is not ready for it, a family member will be more capable of delivering information, and must take into account that the information provided for the child to be simple, easy to clarify the nature of some graphics,It can be one of the relatives, such as Aunt or maternal aunt, more capable than the mother, and here must be that the mother shared with her in such a dialogue with the child, then the role of the teacher or parameter in the delivery of information is part of a school activity, and are far from the excitement of style, or minimize the importance of answering all the questions of children, according to mental age.
- It was essential to explain how the transmission of disease sexual, are to make the teenager benefit from the information presented; to protect himself from the risk of venturing into the exposure to such dangerous practices, taking into account the strong influence of the model which affect the child in various stages of growth, usually young people respond to the model example more than one response for parents, and who represents authority of the teenager in this age critical stage.
- It is important to recognize what the child from information obtained from any source, and figure out how to correct this erroneous information in a non-repellent to a child, and without punishing him for the wrong concepts, with the repetition of the correct information in several ways; even accommodate its.
- Ideally, that parents participate together in clarifying information for the child, especially in the early stages of childhood, and the respect of certain sensitive topics for adolescents, it is better to have one parent (the mother with the girls, or the father with the boys) to clarify and explain these issues are neutral and scientific manner, without any «personifying» of the situation on the teenager, as it should stop for a while and re-question for any queries to the teenager.
* Advice
Sex education is an important basis for building the capabilities and concepts of the individual in society about the foundations of social and marital life, thus achieving an individual and therefore the family, stability, and is a «joint training on life skills» for everyone, male and female, in any human society
Monday, May 16, 2016
Intimate relation in difficult times
In the midst of life and its problems, permeate the marital relationship attitudes and events may be difficult, and often affect these situations and conditions on the intimacy between the couple's relationship, and the affection that they met them, but it is possible that these difficult circumstances sometimes be the key to strengthening the relationship between the parties,Rather than be a motivation for the separation of intolerance conditions, or lack of understanding of one another, and it is not necessary that the ideal is always to do with the intimate atmosphere are available, there are some medical studies show that this relationship significant benefits even if exercised in times and circumstances may seem strange. here Advise you in this topic diligence on the relationship at specific times no matter how strange or looked the wrong time:
- time feeling ill
Many married couples think that the disease should preclude Intimate relation; because it needs for effort, while there are studies proving that Intimate relation strengthen the immune system and useful in cases of the disease, but of course are not cases of severe illness.
- In the morning:
Although the Intimate relation associated with everyone at night, but it can be made in the morning, where not Be testosterone ratio. And energy levels high, but the increase in oxytocin levels maintains the link between you and your partner during the day, also raises endorphins mood.
- Case of bad mood:
requires work tension and Traffic Transport and provocative attitudes to private moments forget the burden of such negative attitudes, and intimacy may help alleviate tension.
- Times fatigue after sports and arduous tasks:
Rather than rest after sports Intimate relation could be helpful, sport is working on blood flow in the body, raising the desire rate. And increases the harmony between the couple.
- Before embarking on a difficult or mission critical:
Let's imagine that a couple in the process of an important job interview or a meeting, and here. Look Intimate relation before going, effective in calming nerves and lower blood pressure, and thus relieve anxiety and tension.
Kinds of The lies and Personal Injury that destroys marriages
Lies Personal Injury stems from the imagination of women specifically, and ratification may lead to disastrous results. And that some women make up lies and believe her. And it is trying to delve deeper into its ratification to lead to negative results, and after the women come to its senses, to find that too late.There are several types of delusional lies that contribute to a defect in the married life, and perhaps the resulting complete destruction of marriage, what are these lies?
- Absolute happiness.It is the purpose of marriage:
Some women believe that marriage. If not brings. Happiness is unworthy to continue in it, and this is a lie and a fake trying to build many of them married life, women must not feel this happiness hypothesis becomes the marriage for her without meaning.There is no absolute happiness in anything .. there are varying degrees of happiness, feeling varies between the woman and the other. Marriage is, of course, must be combined with a sufficient degree of happiness, but the question is who is not facing marital problems? Not right, some women claim that they do not face any marital problems; because the coexistence between a man and a woman under one roof leads to friction and drawbacks.
- I do not love my husband, but I will live with him forever in marriage:
Dangerous in this lie is that we can not afford the behaviors of those are far from love towards us for too long, or forever as you say some women. It is right to say that we will try to carry the behavior of those who do not love us in the attempt to preserve the marriage, and the expectation that it will come on and comes love, or perhaps partner learns how to love.There are many cases where the love comes after marriage. But the argument that marriage lasts forever without love is the wrong argument.
- Unethical behavior does not affect the marriage:
The study showed that there are people, particularly men, believe that there is no relationship between the lack of ethics and marriage, that any person can be immoral, but it can continue in the marriage. This is also one of the lies that under the illusion that they are correct in our imagination, but it is serious lie.
- Betrayal partner once or two does not affect marriage This lie is believe it that some 70% of men, according to statistics reported by the study, of betraying once. It can betray more, so to say that treason few times do not affect the marriage is a lie. This lie does not last; because if exposed. Married life will be destroyed. But it depends on the degree of readiness of partner for amnesty for the other because of treason, it has been proven that the majority of women and men can not bear the brunt of infidelity.
- She married the wrong partner:
There are those who try to believe that they were married to the wrong partner. It would be wrong to judge the whole married life through the brawl one, but there are those who believe that the quarrel that has occurred, especially if there is a large wound to the feelings, means that the marriage was with the wrong partner, forget that married life is to give the necessary opportunities for improvement. And this lie phantom remain stuck in the mind of the partner to the point of possibly evolving in the imagination, one idea that marriage was not according to expectations.
-There is no match in Opinion:
Opposition to the other opinion that something normal was in ordinary life or marital; but there are couples who creates in his mind based on that difference of opinion means that the marriage failed fake lie. From this point we have to realize that people have different views between, we have not only accepted, but also respect.Such Flam phantom formed in the mind of those who have a personal authoritarian, where he believes that the lack of approval for each partner what he says or difference of opinion means that the marriage failed, and this thinking can destroy already married life.
- Breaking the tradition of marriage is not important:
This also is one of the lies phantom; because. Break the positive traditions in marriage is not healthy. One example is the stop participating in child-rearing or neglect, and the belief that they will learn life for themselves. This also includes breaking traditions related aspect of intimacy; such as stop caressing between the couple, and considering the relationship between them and are not very important in marriage.
- There is no hope in improving the lives of married couples
The fake lie in the belief that married life can not be improved, the emergence of some of the problems that are normal with all couples. And right here is the belief that everything in life Negotiable development and improvement, including marriage. If there is a defect must think about how to resolve it; things are going to make towards better. It has been proven that a lot of wives and husbands were able to overcome adversity and improve the marriage away from thinking of divorce as a solution.
The most important errors that occur during intimacy
Women in our societies seek to delight her husband, and especially in the intimacy relationship because of the internal sense, who grew up with her in the importance of the happiness of the pair primarily ignored her feelings and needs. But Personal Injury and access to the satisfaction between the parties is linked mainly to make every party has the maximum to achieve satisfaction and happiness of the other party and for himself, and employment possibilities available to him to become more attractive to the opposite party.and Here are some mistakes are located where the wife during sexual intercourse:
-The man does not read what's on your mind:You know it's difficult for the wife to talk with her husband about what she loves. For fear of his reaction and how it will look, but it is important also to guide the pair as she likes, and the use of her intelligence in directing during the relationship and be amazed by the results.
- Do not refuse during the relationship:If you are tired or exhausted or do not have a desire to practice intimacy. Refuse and apologized before starting a relationship. Do not wait to go half the distance and then refuses because this would raise the narrow and will feel that the reason for its rejection related to him.
- Be initiative sometimes: When you feel the desire wife, you must give a signal to the pair, this would make him happy and will feel that this is not his mission alone. I know you're afraid rejected, but how the pair would be happy. When he knows it desirable. The wife does not fear rejection even if it has happened and refused to be does not have the desire or tired now, as with her happens sometimes.
- Dialogue During the relationship: The wife know the nature of her husband and nature Do you like talk time relationship. Or sensory communication The most important and most powerful? This is due to the nature of each couple, but from time to time on them to surrender to the feelings only And leave the emotions as they are speaking.
- The relationship does not end when the end of your husband: The wife may think that intimacy is over when The end of the pair, but this is not true, the relationship ends with the consent of the parties, it is necessary to be honest with the wife of her husband feelings and the degree of sufficiency.
- Do not reject his proposals: Intimate relationship, like any relationship in life you need to renew, and men usually like after a period of follow a certain routine, change and renewal not refuse or feel that he lost his desire to you, but the opposite receptive the idea and receptive to test a new way because they usually will increase your enjoyment.
-Wear exciting clothes: Choose a wife her clothes feel comfortable and at the same time help her to show her femininity in front of her partner, plays a key role in making it more charm and excitement to her husband.
-The lighting in the room: The wife has to stay away from the use of lighting is friendly intimate times, choice of suitable lighting allows creating the atmosphere through the exercise of intimacy. Therefore, we recommend choosing low light and low power lamps and lights candles that improve mood.
- Hair Removal: The wife diligence before starting an intimate relationship to ensure that the body is clean and free of hair, and it is soft enough to make it more exciting.
*And finally that the more successful the communication between the wife and husband in all walks of life surely will be a successful intimate relationship.
Scents that separates the couple during intimate relation
intimate relation based on the approach and cohesion between the two parties, the convergence of loving lover offset by the convergence of physical full in this relationship, but the couple may correspond some drawbacks that create disharmony between them, and the most prominent of these drawbacks bad breath, so we will shed light on these lines on the reasons that may this leads to the smell, and how to avoid and deal with them able to enjoy an intimate relationship harmonious:
- Mouth odor problem most likely be a presentation of the disease, and should treat the disease until it has passed, the most important cause of this smell as follows diseases.
- Reasons related to the care of the cleanliness of the mouth and teeth, as well as gum disease and periodontal infections, as well as the teeth diseases such as cavities.
- reasons related illnesses nose and pharynx. Like sinus infection, and pharyngitis.
- reasons. Related to the respiratory system such as chronic .
- Reasons related to the digestive system such as growth of bacterial and constipation.
- odors may be caused by eating foods with unpleasant smell.
*The first step in getting rid of this scourge in addressing the reasons mentioned and avoid foods with unpleasant odors before practice intimate relationship.
_You can do several great steps to ensure that you and your partner grainy smell of mouth, through the following:
- Put always a kind of rinsing the mouth with strong and refreshing smell, as always will work to clean the mouth and eliminate any bacteria type and make a refreshing smell.
-Put next to your bed. Elegant vessel. Fill it with candy colored and distinctive to you favorite flavors, and when it starts in caresses and whispered Give him one, and another eat to be beautiful flavor in your relationship.
-You can use the machine gun of the mouth freshener and place it next to the bed permanently, if one of the parties felt the need to use faster.
-Add the spices with aromatic scents for your food.
Do not be shy of openness while you suffer from it, and you agree with your partner on the interest in the subject and the application of the proposals mentioned and go to the doctor in the case was that causes a disease must be cured medically.
Sunday, May 15, 2016
The importance of using fondling in intimate relation
Many people think that fondling, which precedes the intimate encounter stage must be stereotyped image "romantic" for the couple, so that it can stimulate the body, and sometimes a kind of anxiety and uneasiness happens if the way both the man or the woman changed. The fact that he does not know many people that this phase is not just a transitional stage between normal activity and intimacy between spouses.It is the stage of great importance in achieving emotional satisfaction and intimate rapprochement between the couple, so specialists are keen to improve the performance in the intimate foreplay stage with training to make it more interesting for both parties.
-One of the methods may be to help alleviate anxiety and tension with the couple. Which is facing daily in their married life and be a period of about feelings even if intimacy has not been all stages, and this fact is important to know couples.Especially among women and we find this image of suffering in some people, who have been married for a long time that may enter the intimate relation in the performance of duty or the pattern in terms of getting used to and lose sparkle and fun for both parties.
-Considered fondling of the most important stages of the relationship, where the body's physiological changes of natural create to complete this circle of hormonal and physiological reactions, including from the creation of the heart and blood, breathing and circulation, with both parties and continue the process to complete intimate relation, and then the circle is complete stage return the body gradually to what it was with improve the mood of the couple.
-Also fondling stage. Mental and physical. It can be a makeshift stage in some cases suffering from disorders in men, whether for reasons of membership or even psychological as it works to stimulate the secretion of certain hormones that help complete intimate relation, is that stage of the most important stages, which are used for the treatment of genital spasm with Especially women and newly married, that helps them to overcome the fears and the accompanying stiffness in the muscles in the pelvic area and lower abdomen and is done with the help of the husband in most cases.
-It also found that most people are married for a long time tend to satisfaction rates and specific ways in intimate relation with the passage of time, particularly if accompanied by infection with some organic diseases, chronic non-infectious diseases, such as diabetes, high blood pressure and hardening of the arteries, which occurs more with post-the fifty-year-old men or even women, and do not forget the role of depression as a disease responsible for many cases of power change and the weakness of the desire, especially in women.
-Harmony between the couple of the most important elements to achieve satisfaction and emotional gratification and intimate between them does not mean that what we read or know about or improve performance developed to be inclusive unless the parties agreed to such a matter, so as not to cause. Sudden change in the intimate performance to the occurrence of adverse effects are difficult to adapt to them.
Tips for married-how to build a happy life?
Retaining the intimate life may require effort after having children. But you can target the obstacles that complicate matters, especially if you're a new mother feel frustration and resentment, anxiety or fatigue, and you are busy providing all feelings of love to the new baby.Here are some things that will help you get rid of these feelings and build a happy relationship.
You feel frustrated.If you spent the whole day to take care of your child, and your husband returned from work to sit in front of the TV, it must be that you feel frustrated; because your life is changed as larger. That possibility may be difficult rapprochement between you.
The discomfort of this will increase the tension for both parties, it is likely that he is considering how to provide living his new family, and work hard and extra time rather than helps in child care.So you have to control your feelings and trying to help the pair. And walk together in building a happy family.
-Fatigue. You enter with him in the responsibility.Because the desire for the intimacy associated with mental situation, it is likely that the ongoing fatigue.It makes you move away from sexual intercourse more than your husband.If the husband gets to sleep more than you,and he does not help you in the care of the child at night.explain to him about the need for a balance, and say to him that if you got more comfortable you'll feel worthwhile, and you are more desirable.
-The elimination of resentment through achieve a balance
During maternity leave may cause you not to balance your energy resentment.You work and you love to spend your money on what you want, but you are now committed to spending on the child.So you have to distribute spending between you and your husband, becouse if you feel that you provide the most is another problem,So try to see your husband on such things as the price of diapers and wet wipes. And be sure to show affection like hugging.
-If you're at home with your child, it is obvious that hugs the child sufficiently all day long, and when your husband back. You will be need time to yourself. When your husband returns,WELCOMES him and tell him carries the child and explain to him that you are in need to spend 20 minutes alone.
The table was crowded throughout the week, try the allocation of time to each other over the weekend
-The new accept your role and your body things that may give rise to anxiety. You turned into a source of nutrition for the child, and it is difficult to return to the beautiful and attractive mentality becouse The big tummy after childbirth does not help you on that too,But remember that sense of intimacy linked. And not just appearance.
Saturday, May 14, 2016
The most important reasons for the refusal to engage in a new romantic relationship
The first emotional experience is the key luck for many women, if they had experienced what the experience is successful or failed, the reaction to be either two women looking for a new relationship. To forget the first relationship, or to remain aloof from entering into a new experience, possibly due to one of the following reasons:
-First of all, women may tend to show a lack of interest to the other party. Because she does not feel as attractive to her, so instead of wounding others. Direct rejected. You must tend to show that the extent of the difference for the other person to explain the rejection indirectly.As well as the wrong time for the emergence of the new relationship. As women need enough time to get rid of the effects of a previous romantic relationship or to regroup and regain their self-confidence again, or perhaps because they are not interested in love at the time.
- One of the reasons also is that women have been kind of feelings towards the person and also be impressed by the other party, but the fear of rejection and lack of confidence in herself makes her retreat from continuing in this admiration and finish it before it starts.
-Of the reasons for not entering into a new relationship is different beliefs and views, whether political or religious, for example, or the difference in the simple things favored by each party. These differences are not specific, but is determined by the two parties tendencies and beliefs.
-It is also the form of the body and the way clothes coordination of important things in the first meeting, which may contribute to the rejection or acceptance, the appearance of the body and how to deal have a significant factor in determining the decision by the other party.
There are also personal attributes make us refuse to enter into a new romantic relationship, for example, excessive jealousy or chatter, and others.
Words that destroyed the marital relationship .
Sometimes it may pronounce words. You do not mean it and inadvertently but you'll avoid taking attention and words not spoken to the husband. Many of us spoke things regret it later and wished that the time is due to correct it, but we can not correct the pain that may be caused by such phrases.Among these words:
I want a divorce:Words No spoken front pair
One of the biggest mistakes that might occur to them that tell your spouse you want a divorce. Divorce must be outside Dictionary
Mark it option does not exist. Remember that divorce hurts your spouse and your marriage. Imaginative place yourself a pair when he heard these words.
- The man who I was with him in the past, ... etc.
If you are engaged before, do not, remember that Previous fiancé. So do not, remember that name. Never tell your husband that he was treat you better or something what distinguishes him. Phrases such as this will hurt him deeply. Your partner will never accept comparison.
-You are just like your father:
Never tell your husband that he, like his father. You caused him frustration and loss of self-confidence. Try to stay away from talking negatively about his family. His family will be part of your life for a long time.
- Stay away please!
To tell your husband to go through the brawl will make things worse. The pair will frustrate because you do not want to tell him what's wrong! Communication an essential part of marriage that your husband wanted to talk tell him What is the problem. What bothers you improve things wading talk.
- Do not show that you are not satisfied with your relationship intimate:
But you renewed romance. And showed love to give him confidence and to improve it next time.
-You need to lose some weight:
Do not tell him this ! If there are no medical reasons for it, shut your mouth about the weight. We may grieve. If one told us that we need to lose weight. It is known that men do not think about their weight, such as women. But tell him so repeatedly a negative effect on his self-confidence.
-you need to get another job:
He will feel. You are attacking him and he does not enough for what you need. He will feel inferior. Instead, think of what you want to change from his job. Is your husband away from home! It is possible to move around for the nearest place. Is his salary does not cover the bills !? You can work and help him.
-Your husband last person you can hurt him. But sometimes it is more than hurt him. Our words may hurt more than we think and may not forget for years.
Friday, May 13, 2016
The most important things for the success the marital relationship .
The marital relationship the highest and most sacred relationship on earth, it is the basis of creation, the reconstruction of the ground mission on human responsibility, and we see in the present day that the family courts have been crowded with issues and disputes family of divorce, custody and expense and other, and the reason is not due to physical inability, we see people below the poverty line and live happily, do not deny that the wrong choice for a life partner is sometimes through lack of choice on religious or ethical standard, but according to the physical conditions, there are always elements for the success the marital relationship and fed so as not to wither and crumble with time. and here i will give you The most important things for the success the marital relationship:
-Mutual respect:
Married life is no control of one party over another party, but is a project life of two people are moving life easy and difficult times together, the wife is not a servant of the husband, and the husband is a slave then, but married life is a mutually complement each other.
-Interests:
Anything neglected will crash, as well as the hearts Few attention between spouses weaken feelings and snowing emotions, at times resorted each party to last until compensates this deprivation suffered, as the two sides should pay attention to the appearance and maintain personal hygiene and to wear perfume so as not to alienate the other party
-Frequent complaint:
It is not a rebellion and machining to be a complaint of materialism, but of thinking and the principles or anything else.
-Ridicule:
We find a couple making fun of hobbies, ideas or other party leanings with the knowledge that the female is not forgiven derision by more, she is created for flirting with her and compose her poems, and wound or ridicule their guilt unforgivable, if one of the parties showed the idea of what then, the other that encouraged do not make fun of him, and opinion and the other opinion without mockery, ridicule and attitudes between spouses filled with ridicule from the people and the relatives of the other party.
-Understanding:
Of the finest pictures impartiality of the person for his opinion only and the marginalization of the other party, renounce his opinion, marital Life ship. Two people traveling in and led the whole family.
-Tolerance:
What a beautiful word sorry tell her when one of the parties to the other, even if he was not at fault, it is the best way to strengthen the relationship between them.
-Depart from the routine:
Be out for red tape. That the parties will come out one day for dinner abroad or stay up at somewhere or go trip, it renews the framework of married life and goes boredom. And Recycling her life
How to be the most beautiful bride on your wedding?
Every girl wants to look the most beautiful bride on her wedding day, but feel panicked when the countdown begins, and the approaching date of the ceremony as still has a lot of things and arrangements that have not done not only in relation to the ceremony, but also its beauty. There are things you need for a long time to become okay, such as the black aura or damaged hair, tired skin, teeth, and excess kilos and other things that we must take care of them well to show the best case on the night of a lifetime.
If you have one month to the wedding date there is a way to turn into a beautiful and brilliant bride through this group of expert tips.
-Start of the skin:
Cosmetic experts advise to start intensive skin care before the wedding date four weeks, and this care must include the face and entire body. So it has to be the quality of food and attention to care because the beauty of the skin starts from the inside.
Prepare your skin to be brilliant and shining through food, adequate sleep and drink plenty of water, and visit to an expert skin to work deep cleaning of the skin and remove the grain and blackheads, and work masks gentle and peeled the skin and massage creams feeder many times during this month until you get a clear complexion and supple in Day Your Wedding
-Hands and nails:
The appearance of your hands is very important in your wedding, and especially as it will appear with pictures during the switch wedding ring, so it should look clear and smooth, So try to work peeling daily natural to your hands at home and moisturizing creams moisturizing,You as well Nail Care since the beginning of this month because it will give your hands look more beautiful national cutting his nails and moisturizing natural oils, lemon, remember not to use them as a tool to break things. Thus, to maintain its beauty and its length.
-Weight loss:
It is necessary to a healthy diet and regular exercise because it is the best way to lose weight safely, but if you did not come down and your weight as you would like and started time running out to you it is best to consult a doctor to prescribe some medications that help you to more quickly lose weight, as well as nutritional supplements necessary for your body, because you get a beautiful body as a body supermodels on the day of your wedding.
Teeth:
On this day, must all be complete, integrated and certainly you'll be smiling all day, so it must be beautiful and distinctive white smile, you attention to your teeth cleaned toothpaste special bleaching teeth, and if I felt that it did not become a white 20 days before the wedding. Visit the doctor to whiten your teeth before the wedding
-Cellulite:
Of spam that cellulite distorts the beauty of your body, so you must be careful to use the dissolving cellulite creams as well as natural recipes with a massage as well as dieting to rid the body of accumulated toxins and cellulite and you get a svelte and beautiful body
Hair:
A month before the wedding date. Is the perfect time to choose the hair and color story that should be featured during the honeymoon, as you should know to start your hair and nutrition bathrooms oil, creams and natural masks that would return him to shine and vitality, as well as to change its color by 10-15 days at least if you intend it
-Remove excess hair and eyebrows in the body:
You can choose the method that suits you to remove excess hair and will be the hot wax of the best means to you get a soft body and skin distinctive and polished, as you have to leave your eyebrows are growing month before the date of your wedding, then you remove excess hair before their wedding one day. Thus On the day of your wedding you will be expected already the most beautiful bride Her views at all