Retaining the intimate life may require effort after having children. But you can target the obstacles that complicate matters, especially if you're a new mother feel frustration and resentment, anxiety or fatigue, and you are busy providing all feelings of love to the new baby.Here are some things that will help you get rid of these feelings and build a happy relationship.
You feel frustrated.If you spent the whole day to take care of your child, and your husband returned from work to sit in front of the TV, it must be that you feel frustrated; because your life is changed as larger. That possibility may be difficult rapprochement between you.
The discomfort of this will increase the tension for both parties, it is likely that he is considering how to provide living his new family, and work hard and extra time rather than helps in child care.So you have to control your feelings and trying to help the pair. And walk together in building a happy family.
-Fatigue. You enter with him in the responsibility.Because the desire for the intimacy associated with mental situation, it is likely that the ongoing fatigue.It makes you move away from sexual intercourse more than your husband.If the husband gets to sleep more than you,and he does not help you in the care of the child at night.explain to him about the need for a balance, and say to him that if you got more comfortable you'll feel worthwhile, and you are more desirable.
-The elimination of resentment through achieve a balance
During maternity leave may cause you not to balance your energy resentment.You work and you love to spend your money on what you want, but you are now committed to spending on the child.So you have to distribute spending between you and your husband, becouse if you feel that you provide the most is another problem,So try to see your husband on such things as the price of diapers and wet wipes. And be sure to show affection like hugging.
-If you're at home with your child, it is obvious that hugs the child sufficiently all day long, and when your husband back. You will be need time to yourself. When your husband returns,WELCOMES him and tell him carries the child and explain to him that you are in need to spend 20 minutes alone.
The table was crowded throughout the week, try the allocation of time to each other over the weekend
-The new accept your role and your body things that may give rise to anxiety. You turned into a source of nutrition for the child, and it is difficult to return to the beautiful and attractive mentality becouse The big tummy after childbirth does not help you on that too,But remember that sense of intimacy linked. And not just appearance.
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