The most important things that you should not be imposed on the spouse

In marriage, the couple needs constantly to each other, whether it's for emotional support during a difficult period or until one of them does not have to suffer alone, but some expectations of a spouse or of the marriage may be unrealistic. Here, the relationships and family experts draw the line between what is acceptable and what is exaggerated.

- choose between you and his mother: Whatever your problem with the mother, is perhaps sometimes gives it priority or you simply do not agree with her, you bypass it for your spouse (and your relationship) are the reason for its existence in the first place.

"Do you let it kill you to sit down in the seat next to your husband when driving, you are in the back? Do not put the burden of your problems with her, because that will affect the relationship between you, and not on his mother.

- listen to you as you do your girlfriendYour husband should listen to you in difficult times, but he should not be personal outlet you, as have men and women usually different objectives continue, in men it revolves around identifying and solving problems, and the women to express their feelings and communicate emotionally.The prospect of listening to you passionately make him get frustrated, as you will become frustrated when he does not perform his role as required. .. should not turn to another womanMen and many of the wives also noticing the beautiful women, and it is reasonable to expect that distract your husband look whenever passed beautiful female, considering is normal, and not until the case is healthy as long as it just looked only, but if your husband flirts with another woman (beautiful or not) , run afoul about his behavior.-give up what he loves, on a professional or personal levelThe concerns of your spouse a potential part of what attracted you to it in the first place, and therefore you resisted the resentment of the energy spent by those things once you become married to him, when busy husband at work or in a hobby, it's not ignore the family, but the sequel overall happiness. The balance is the key to the solution: we must not deprive you of his passion for the average family or a night out weekly time.- to be a different manIt is natural that sometimes wonder why I married this person? After so many years together. But remember that is what you hate in the spouse may be by the other face of the printed loves him, let's assume that your husband spontaneous having difficulty to meet the deadline, but you may need him to bring up children on time, but do not punctuate his habit of delays at dinner, either For really critical tasks, then explain to him where the mission is situated in the comprehensive plan for the family, and then to discuss national responsibilities, and in this way, will feel as if it were part of the decision to bring in charge of the children, rather than just the feeling that you are weary of urgency.- stop seeing his friendsYour husband needs friends from abroad, and friends of the same sex can be a man with them, as soon as you need to with your friends. But cut him this would be less health and less happy, and there is a possibility, to see you the source of those negative emotions, while for the female-friendly, the were not able to adhere to the limits, such as being very attractive, it is time to refrain from seeing her, and knows that this is not acceptable in the context of marriage.- Remember every important moment, especially in your relationshipWomen tend to retain emotional memories better than men because our brains simply work that way, while you remember the exact date and time of the engagement, the more likely your husband is not mentioned.If what you important stage, directly communicative with your spouse pre-around, though overlooked by then, be directly and quietly explain to him why you feel disappointed, you do not feel his guilt or expect him to understand how your impact it, and that explains the depth of disappointment.- that shares the all interests.Do not ask him is to join you in a lot of cases, you do like the activities, but is not loved, spending time together with interest separately promotes bonding. Give him the opportunity to feel the absence of from time to time and will react by showing the disposal lets you know that he appreciates you and misses you, then you can both do something you enjoy doing together, and creates memories and fun.- that the person be more mature when you act childishSilent treatment and prevention of affection (especially intimate) relationship in order to get what you want is improper and immature: Instead of responding to you, your husband will back down. Fact that you broke passive-aggressive of the most destructive of the relationship and communication formats, and creates a negative cycle form only anger and resentment.If you feel that your husband owe you an apology, Do not let your feelings seem less important than they are, but do not attack him. Instead, be determined to express yourself, "I feel pain when Ignore because I feel like you do not take into account what I want to say or that I feel I deserve an apology for the way they rejected me yesterday evening; the next time, is it possible to check me so?