Specifications ideal for women who sought by a man

Specifications ideal for women who sought by a man

The man may fall in love with the girl naive, which amaze his her innocence and drifting in marriage vulnerable women that are easy to fold up between the corners of the house wall, which did not oppose his orders, and serve as the satisfaction of the ego and feel as a man who has the final say, but at the same time respects the bold women . And recognition of women's personal strong.

- Proof of more than 90% of men admit they may take advantage of the good and vulnerable women and live with her a romantic relationship or a special relationship away from the marriage, but they love and respect bold women, because the weak may be boring and non-renewable in the relationship. There is no need of them only a quiet and warm times, but quickly moving away them. Not marry her only the man who likes to control or who wants to comfort his problems and dialogue, this was confirmed by a recent US study.
The study pointed, men averse than provocative. That make the hostility since their first meeting with the man, and prefer soft smooth strong women, and the firm, and kind, which does not allow one to play her feelings or exploited because she knows what she wants.
- If the good woman give free of charge at the first word of love, strong woman give or always prevent in a timely manner and to the extent take, although some prefer wife, but many refuse to be bound by her, especially if a prestigious center in their work, they consider the power of her personality a challenge to their manhood, and tangible evidence seems clear high rate of spinsterhood among the ranks of smart educated in prestigious work, the more outstanding certificates on the wall, the less number of suitors who are knocking on the door.
That some men may find the marriage of a woman with features strong character some kind of challenge to their manhood and their control on the house while considered work with comfort because they can rely on, while there are another group of men considered the marriage of strong personal woman a catalyst for them to progress forward in work, home and social life are complementary to them and not challenge them.
- The women self-confident great luck with men, because they love their confidence in themselves, they will not open the gates of hell on them because of her jealousy, or lack of confidence in their love.
Therefore the man who is married to a woman with a great deal of self-confidence may fingernail peace of mind and get rid of absurdities of early women's petty problems. Women also confident of herself does not impose itself on the man, but is the one who must seek behind his desire to marry her so much, so the man does not feel that he was involved in the link. As she did not haunt her husband telephone communications to make sure his sincerity if a little late for an appointment and arrival at the house, or if soirée was associated with his friends. And because it is a mysterious woman man can not predict their actions, the man adores constant renewal in his life with her.
- Ideal Specifications: Despite the different tendencies of human desires, but there is a common specification for women it combines the most idealistic men and always are looking for a partner in their lives. Which it refers to a survey conducted in the United States, pointing out that men are attracted to:
- Independent: a reverse dependency, do not wait for the man to meet the demands, always rely on herself, as well as a woman flying like to travel and meet new people.
- Beautiful seductive: any attractive women is stilted in her beauty, which does not resort to the artificiality.
- Smart: a woman who can address the heart of the man using her own mind, can feel her love without the permit him to do so, so keep a man in a state of alert and stimulate continuously.
- Beloved friendly: listen to the man when in need of it, share it his career positively, at the same time be a sweetheart and pampered daughter in the bedroom.

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Ways to transform negative emotionsTo positive.

Ways to transform negative emotionsTo positive.

Often feel upset and a sense of negativity in various fields, whether work, or friendship, or love, or the center of certain places, these negative emotions that confront us are only negative energy  generated we have, and we believe that sudden feeling, but the fact that we do not know the science energies,Today we will try to answer these questions.

 The reasons for the negative energy:- Previous programming for his life, if it would have been a negative impact on his life, such as: education during the first seven years of his life, there are those who grew up on the title call him stupid or failed, and the rest will have a node failure.
- The lack of specific targets for people or not to believe in themselves and their abilities.
- Negative routine for his life, he does the same day, and find the same results without success.
- Interior effects, and lack of self-acceptance, and negative thinking in his life that he is not capable.
- External influences people or losers of the readings or from the media, which is the most influential person, where shipments filled with negative, and always make it a negative thinking and action.
- The negative focus in failure, permanent and complaint, and bad friends.
Steps to convert the negative energy into positive energy:
- Echoed always the phrase: "I am able .. I can achieve all my ambition, whatever the circumstances", and imagine you're in a place that dream, and watched yourself speaking and shine, and people are clapping for you, and the world is talking about you, and live the moment even live in the depths of your heart. And your subconscious mind believe her opens for you Positive Success files.
- Faith in the values, ideals and principles sound of life.
- You do future work plan. And can be implemented in a specific period.
- Exposure to the sun, sports, and pray, and the feeling with praise and gratitude.
- Discover what is inside you the skills and the pros you use to.
- should attract positive energy by attracting positive thoughts.
- Focus on the solution when faced with crises.
-Take advantage of failed and successful experiences for you and others.
- Learn effective communication skills with others. And thinking skills and the skills of success.

If you follow these tips and apply them inevitably will have feelings of positive reaction and a happy life.

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Love on the Internet. Experiments failed or successful relationships!

Love on the Internet. Experiments failed or successful relationships!

They said in the past: "The love comes from the first look," In our time, and with the development and progress in a century technology and the World Wide Web became said: "The love comes from the first correspondent", as the evolution of love to move new shift becomes love electronically after it was on the the ground face to face,And it became love is to email messages and love over the Internet, and there are those that love the link via the Internet is a legitimate and meaningful, while others find it a virus threatens homes, and is totally unacceptable .. Is Love succeeded via the Internet, or is it just entertainment feelings of others and Search love?

- There are women say I am against the idea and the principle of emotional love and link through the Internet, and I reject, of course, the so-called "Love in the Internet", as I passed a small story and was friendship fleeting, and the passage of days, I discovered that the other party does not care, but the sport only, and be entertain beyond limits of literature and fitness,I did not find the personal intelligentsia respected that talk ideology threads public, but it was the primary objective of entertainment and a waste of his time hiding behind the screen and talk with rejected ethics and society, and I see that from their hiding masks fakes behind screens to obtain the freedom that placed its laws in social life, and they the owners of two faces and figures, understand the demons of mankind on the Internet and in life claim of innocence.
It was my experience that a lesson to me, I learned from it that love is not through the Internet, and it needs to be ratified by loving, and to audio and visual communication, and knowledge of the person face to face, and then possible that fostered online communication, if any, then formal linkage, but it must be be the first meeting and the first knowledge of the reality of the truth and not fiction, online communication does not make you feel the feelings of the other party that was honest or a liar, and you can not see that. The twinkles in his eyes.
- Not only that, but there is also a look at our society of love through the Internet, which is still incomplete and immature, I see around me a lot of marriages fail. Which was completed and had its beginnings knowledge via the Internet, my relationships on social networking sites are all friends of my relatives or friends, in fact, not through the Internet which is no longer as before long relationship,Now I consider it entertainment only and not the fact that I live with it, the Internet's relationships just an illusion and deception, no more no less, and I would advise all girls and young people to go down to the ground to find out what is true love and not false.
- There are also men say, "I refuse all standards the so-called romantic relationships and love through the Internet, there is no doubt that the Internet has acquired the mind and interest in human who has to discover its secrets and find out secretes they contain, and captured the attention of a lot of people of various races and ages,and it became the network used for purposes far removed from the goals that I found for it, such as catching the girls. and rhythm them under the name of "love,And visitors do not reveal their true identity often, and few are telling the truth to the other party, we find the young man introduces himself in the best picture, to clear eventually that handsome young is only a young man does not have the beauty what it takes to lure any girl, may be behind this feminine name beautiful man, and behind that the male name soft girl, in the Internet we be more like a masquerade. Behind the material and moral blocking.
- At these sites the man flirts with the girl words resonant style enchanting even convinced that he is the boy awaited dreams, are dating and establish friendship develop a love relationship, and respect each other, may end the relationship by agreeing to the marriage, and the marriage in my opinion was based on the foundations of an illegal and not sound, and fate of failure and regret, and will not be long, but begins doubts stage, and will continue to pair lost confidence or trust of his life with her, The girl obtained via phone or Internet chat rooms. Unsafe in his view,May seek again to establish similar relationships with others, this is what will occupy his mind and raises concern all the time, and I accept, of course, romantic relationships that are in formal and realistic range does not have any dirty purposes, it is a link to a family with wife satisfaction for myself and my life, and to be chaste self take care of my home and my family.

* To every girl looking for love using the Internet. Think carefully and choose the best and the more long-term was the right choice . Because identifying the right person needs to be enough time. In this article I spoke about the opinion of some people. But there are those who succeed using the internet and built a happy family

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How to reconcile the love and study?

Between the dreams of love and achievement and passion for education and his ambition, girls are at a loss .Which is most important: to be a family life of their own, or give up love for the sake of ambition education and upgrading, which will arrive at the end of the day to the highest levels of practical ambition, and prove self? And any roads better, two options are both irreplaceable in life, but it is necessary to find a formula together to achieve this.

- Once girls reach the age of majority. Changing society's perception of her, the girl entered in the female framework in which to be linked to partner life to build a family's future, as well as the matter is not free from the dreams of pink girl and Knight life, their own wishes to get love full her emotions, so we find some of the girls under the age of twenty or slightly above it to enter the world of love or marriage, with consequent great responsibilities, then it shall meet love life with loads of study, which infect turmoil and confusion, which one you choose: build a family or build a practical future?

- Love is beautiful and likable of the same, but you should pay attention before you fall into it and the abolition of the mind and make the heart is what controls the emotions, make us choose the wrong road, and this is where most of the young girls fall, and the girl's education is a weapon. Which strengthens the confidence and simmer of her personality, and makes her opinion and thought assisted to overcome the difficulties of life in all the wisdom and rationality, and there is nothing to prevent that meets the love and science together, but in the context of credibility and openness with restraint and not to raise the balance on the other.

- Of course preferably not rush the girl throws herself and her feelings on the first word love respond to becomes aware of, or be exposed to the insistence of the parents in her marriage being exceeded adulthood and that is the march of life, so be that the girl put the basic conditions for her life and her future to achieve a balance between the two, without wandering in so, which are:

_ Objective: You must put your scientific goals aspire to reach it. Not waive achieved; science is a weapon of life and knowledge.

_ Maturity: Be mature intellectually Despite the small age do not claim any external influences affecting the fateful decision to admit you may change the future of a world which you wish to have.

_ Be patient: Do not rush, hoping to earn love, so make sure before you found the sincere love that support you and increase your success.

_ Put your accounts: through the pros and cons account, and any tip will tend for you, and the introduction of consultation, and bitch about the rush to any external cause may be exposed to it.

_ Respect: Learn to respect the emotions and respect for the value of education, Both are an integral part. And it must not be separated with each other Each complements the other indirectly.

- , That the possession of the certificate is very important for its future, as well as also love and marriage, because God created us to complete our lives partner last to achieve the dream of motherhood beautiful, and can not find any objection to that love and the study is consistent with each other if found true love and partner, who improves to be treated in them, and helps her to pass the stages and completed her education to study, but if placed in the check box. You will choose love. And the link, it is the top of her happiness and priorities, and full belief that love does not object with academic achievement,But it is an incentive to him, so you should choose a life partner carefully; because of love will seek definitely successful, successful The girl is that you can have all Life Tools of love and marriage, study and work without being the victim of one of them lies, all in the first and foremost is located on of your choice for shared her life ,And on the strength of its confidence and ambition, the girl refused to marry because science is not completely right will result in damage to many in the community, and this has lead to an increase of sedition and corruption of society, and moral chaos.

- The girl is interested in nature with love, and is also interested in proving self, life is beautiful and dreamy alone is not enough to make a living, and must strive to build the future. As well as the girl someday will be a mother, and would seek to educate their children, they must be on the amount of adequate science to create a new generation, and will get to do it, but science. It weapons should not surrender it, as well as love is what makes life better person, real loving seeks to delight partner. And be of help to him not it, Love gives a great boost,But more important to differentiate between love and desire so as not to fall into the labyrinths, and should parents are sensitive and conscious to respect our views and desires of support. No coercion, everything has its time and its beauty, not in favor of urgency to end one of the two roads, Parents help us their experiences that enrich our thoughts and our decisions if available understanding and dialogue .

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Tips for girls before they fall in love

Love is one of the exams pass out in your life, but differs from the rest of the exams that everyone may evade the exercise, everyone is accelerating to love without any prior preparation it, abound questions by girls about love, and how to fall into it, and the most appropriate time for it,But is every girl ask themselves. If you were eligible for this love? And how they work to get it in order not to fall in a bad choice and rush, which may be a reason for feeling remorse throughout her life? In the following lines, the solution to that problem for you to open up broad prospects love to see another concept was absent from you, so as a new window through which to overlook your emotions and how to budget in order to avoid taking a failure in love.

- The girl does not know in a lot of times if what you feel is the true love that will live forever or is it just love transient full emotional desires no more, Girls usually fall in love gap rapidly as a result of the lack of emotional gratification, resorting to satisfy it by searching for loving. Which expresses her words of love and compassion,Often the girl begin to search for love from the age of "14 years", as suffering during this period of turmoil in the identity and look for proof of the same, whether in love or study or talent, it is important to prove that it is a phenomenon in society and beloved, we find some of the girls may resorted to this kind of emotional love, and deflects behind it to prove identity,As we can see others happy words of praise and spinning, due in a lot of times to loss their touch of parental caring and containment fraternal tenderness emanating from the mother, which detract from their own emotion, resorts to compensate from the outside, and there are girls although because they are within the family range loving and full of feelings abundant,However, they are drifting behind blind imitation, and jealous of their friends stories. their having a lover, the girl seeks to be like them to show for herself that it does not lack anything like them and the same, and this of the most dangerous things, some girls weak souls. Resort to telling stories And lies The highlights in the vicinity of girlfriends.

- But what the girls should pay attention it. That true love has the conditions and does not come in vain, but you deserve. Always looking to it and keep it in your life, as you learn how to pick it love, it will not come only put some important foundations that help you in your life in order not to fall in the wrong illusions of love, and the most important of these principles:

- Self-realization:

Achieved yourself by reaching for your goals and your ambitions in your life that you want to the future, they are the basis of your identity and your character pillars that will support your confidence and you are independent personality.

- Select age-appropriate:

Before thinking in to experience love, live your age level, and to postpone the decision to love after you reach the age of majority, in order to Being enjoyed all stages of your age, not wearing a dress emotional maturity and you are still small it.

-  Do not Rush into love:

Rush into love to get emotional gratification may sign you into a well of remorse and failure in love as a result of a bad choice. Before that draws your feelings of love you have to go easy in order to improve choice.

- balancing the mind and heart:

The balance between the mind and heart in the feelings of love, do not let emotion control you. Be canceled your thinking, which in turn will take you and guide you to know right from wrong, and you evaluate things with your mind first before you routed to your heart.

- Honesty with yourself:

Being honest with yourself before you fall in love, and wondered: Is this love sincere. Or just a love of tradition and placebo or to hear the words of love and spinning. Satisfy the ego and emotions? If you believe with yourself. You will then know what you want from that love.

- Maintaining your values:

Do not let drift behind Love cancel your values and your principles and your morals that you arose them, even the man does not care is not seen the girl started insulting her dignity and reputation out of love. But would prefer a girl who sticks to customs and morals and values, whatever the temptations of love in front of him.

-  Put the foundations for your partner:

You have to put your specifications for the man of your dreams, as embodied the image in your mind of its shape and emotions, you should put your foundation sound morals and his commitment to his work and his knowledge, man sincere hard in his life is committed to morality and full of morality and true manhood to be able to create a secure future for himself and his family.

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Apathy among the reasons for the couple and how the treatment

Marital relations collide often coolly passionate cause away from the other person may sometimes go away or the demise of the reasons may remain, leaving many problems may amount to a final separation or search for another haven,Here we talk about the causes of apathy in the relationship between the couple and how we process its, including:

- The possible impact of some social or economic pressures faced by the family on an emotional and psychological behavior when one of the spouses or when both, but this is circumstantial and disappear with the demise of the implications of the problem.- To be one of them. Few intelligence in relation to the intimate relationship, in the sense that it is very reassuring that the other loves him no matter what the performance and quality of the relationship, leading to a failure to do any effort to please the other. Based on the love that unites them, do not they return cares about each other in terms of appearance or exchange gifts and fine words and other things that improve the relationship and attract one to the other.- Laziness in the behavior of one of the spouses is no longer so interested in the other to the wishes and the likes of perfume, and listen to music, watch movies, and the quality of a particular food, clothes, a car,And it becomes everyone do not bother to think and search for aesthetic and positive elements in the other character and appearance- Indifference occasions (birthday feast, feast marriage ..), which are of interest to women a lot, and here it must be noted that the gift remember the last beautiful days of a person of love.- Lack of respect for the privacy of others. Within manners, his personality, what he likes and dislikes and within the scope of his work,If a person has used to read the newspaper in the morning, for example. His wife comes to him and removed the grounds that it does not care about its, or if a woman has become accustomed to sleeping longer hours in the morning. The pair comes to wake her early every day. The same applies to the intimate relationship between them, it is not enough to have work mechanically, but there must be a permanent space for emotional harmony between the two parties by revealing what loves. What hated each other during intimacy.- The introduction of an external negative element. The sense of extramarital bilateral, home, meaning the introduction of the problems that one party may suffer in his work or with friends or family, for example, to the house.- Not taking into account the professional and social progress of each party remains of the two other seen in the same way that was seen in the past and wants to treat him a sense of superiority from his place of work or position.* Tips to strengthen the marital relationship:- Regeneration in the routine of life, the meaning of change some usages routinely boring, such as changing hairstyle, fragrance user, the restaurant, which often met him out every day holiday.- Regeneration in emotional harmony means that from time to time the launch of a range of compliments the other and made to understand that he still has the aesthetic aspects, do not need to be old, but emerging, raise the morale of the other.- To get away from all the negatives and everyday things that previously mentioned and lead to apathy in the relationship between the couple.- Permanent hope in life and the preservation of mental Youth, as it works to strengthen the relationship more.

Must be given the intimacy of great importance, marriage is not only the search for consistency in ideas only, Agreement intellectual good, but must be given the intimacy importance because they are granted by the continuity of marriage and supports the relationship more, especially that all men are looking forward to this issue and see it as essential.

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Problems in the intimate relation

A lot of husbands and wives is believed that the man is responsible for the start of intimate relation, and it is always and never formatted and ready to her, and this belief is not true, where we find that some of the wives feel no desire in the marital relationship, but they are able to keep up with the pair to some extent, it has been the progress of women many excuses that indicate a lack of desire or willingness to intimate relationship, and although it can interact with the husband during the relationship, but for a man can not be prejudiced against himself. Or flattering his wife when his unwillingness,Because it requires a certain amount of excitement, and that does not happen without desire, and here the problem comes when the wife believes that the pair might desire it, or that it has other alternatives to get the satisfaction and gratification, and we find through medical practice that men who suffer from this problem are afraid or ashamed to discuss it with their wives, and resort to ask for help; either by popular herbal treatment, either at the request medical help.so here The reasons why some couples stop intimate relation, and are either temporarily, or even permanently:

- Intimate with a man need to practice two key factors must be present for together; Group I: the desire in the relationship in any of its forms; of self-practice or with a partner. The second factor: the ability to carry out this desire. If any malfunction occurred in one of these two elements, or both; it happens that a man begins to anxiety, which in itself is one of the factors that negatively affect the intimate practice, and I'll show you many of the reasons that make the man stop or refrain from practice with partner,But not necessarily to stop the practice of self, which is one of these reasons, and can be summarized in the following elements.

- The effect of some medicines, which are used to treat certain diseases, whether organic; such as drugs lower blood fat, or psychotropic drugs; such as some types of antibiotics or depression treatments, and should not forget here that the most important diseases that lose the man libido is depressed disease.

- Inability to sleep and the incidence of insomnia for any reason may be related to the physical aspect, work or physical fatigue and other reasons, also it found that some men who suffer from sleep disorders or apnea during sleep; also suffer from the disorder in the desire intimate relationship.

- Deficiency in the level of hormones in the body, especially the hormone testosterone, which results in some symptoms such as breast hypertrophy and lack of facial hair. And body generally, must work here lab tests; to see the levels of these hormones, with the measure thyroid hormone also; because in the case of severe decline intimate relation affected.

- Disorder in sexual identity, which is rare, and usually show symptoms in the early stages of age; where feel the man believed to be a woman, and be inclinations towards the same sex, but not as in cases of homosexuality, and this disorder appears on the behavior a lot of signs that make man acting at the belief that female, and we find some families tend to marry off their children; believing that this will help to treatment. and this belief is not true.

- The existence of deep differences with the wife.

- Psychological pressure and the presence of psychological problems deep need to specialized treatment,; the husband is suffering from a sense of guilt to you, and here should be subject to the treatment of behavioral; to help get rid of this negative feeling inside; even improve psychologically has also must pay attention to the fact that he can not procreation, and whether there are alternatives such as caring for orphans, and even from family, what makes it more able to cope with the painful realities of life.

- Some couples tend to practice self-excitement, or what is known as the secret habit, as a substitute for intimacy, especially if there are some matters relating to the comments, and even if they were not intended by the wife, making him estranged from common practice, and here we need to find out more things about the dynamics of the marital relationship, and the things that I would advise them always to resort to clinics marital counseling, and identify the problem more accurately and closely, with an emphasis on the above mentioned expectations in intimate relationships, and differences between the couple.

 Some men suffer in silence, and may not know that the wife may be the primary catalyst to get rid of a lot of negative feelings in men, especially if the forecasts are based on realistic grounds, and without the tendency to judgment before knowing the hidden side of the problem.

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